My boyfriend and I are having problems right now but at first things were perfect. Now its like everything is falling apart after over a year things arent the same..I love him an dont want to leave, I want to do whatever it takes to make it work but now Im like is it even worth it anymore..When we met it was love at first sight we fell in love the day we met he said he knew we were meant to be together and I felt the same but now he has been distant and saying mean things to me that he know is going to hurt my feelings.I just dont know anymore...
2006-07-05 19:10:09 · 8 answers · asked by Luvley27 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Well see he is the type to keep to himself when something is bothering him really stubborn.So him opening up to me is only when he wants to
2006-07-05 19:17:12 · update #1
if he is disrespecting your feelings and saying hurtful things, this will eventually erode YOUR self confidence....leave him! You are much better then that! good luck.
2006-07-05 19:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships are good or "perfect" at the start or else you really wouldn't date that person unless you hated yourself.
This is under the horoscope category, but you don't give your sun signs. Usally, people are attracted to the sign across from them. For example, I'm a Virgo (Sept.) and I'm most compatible with Pisces (Mar.) though other signs are also viable.
If one applies some psychology to this question, you don't seem to have enough self-respect and if that is the case, no relationship will be healthy.
How did he know you were meant to be together? Sometimes men are right when they say this. Other times, like for a friend who married a man who beat her, it's a manipulation. It's important for you to learn about his character. An impartial friend or family member would be a good judge since when we're in love, we can be temporarily "blind."
2006-07-06 06:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by skellyatsogang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one falls in love the second they lay eyes on each other, that's lust. You can't love someone until you really know them. Tell your boyfriend he needs to straighten up. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and we've had our problems, when I tell him to straighten up, he straightens up. If he's distant, he could be seeing someone else. I'd be talking to him if I were you. It's only been a year, it shouldn't be like that already.
2006-07-06 02:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your boy friend how you feel. i think you two need to sit down and talk about your guys problems. i agree no one falls in love when you first see the person, you might be attracted to them, but Falling in love takes time, and so does falling out of love.
2006-07-07 07:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by angelsentfrmabve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are reasons behind his changed behaviors. Take charge and confront him. If he's evasive or reacts with anger, move on. Sounds like you have a lot to offer someone who will appreciate you. Good luck.
2006-07-06 02:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by sk8terboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you really know the answer to this question. Hint: If you had to ask it in the first place...PROBABLY NOT.
2006-07-06 07:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by kitty fresh & hissin' crew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend
2006-07-06 02:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds like another person has his attention...
watch him....he sounds like he's pushing you away.
2006-07-06 02:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋