what should i do???

Question

when a friend a mine is stuck with a guy she likes but hurt her.

thnxs 4 the help i was really stuck and didnt know what 2 tell her. but thnxs 2 u i kinda have an idea.

Answer 1

Personally no one is really stuck with anyone. If your friend wants to be with this person then it really is their choice and not yours to make. I mean if this person hurts them this person will learn in the long run and probably leave the other person when they are ready. I was in that perdicament myself and never listened to what my friends told me until i was ready to see the hell taht the man i was with was putting me through. The best thing to do is to let them realize on their own and to let them learn from it and just to be there when all the peices come undone cause a true friends help u pick up the peices when ur towers all come crumbling down.

Answer 2

If you are speaking of her being hurt physically by this guy, then she should tell her parents immediately. If she cannot go to her parents, she should seek out a trusted relative, school counselor, or adult friend and tell them what is going on. If she feels she cannot do this, then she needs to go directly to the police herself and let them know what has been happening, and they will be able to advise her and help her handle it from that point on.

If she is unwilling to do any of that because she is afraid of what this guy might do, then you as her friend may need to help her yourself. If you don't want to get directly involved you can always send an anonymous letter to her parents, or else you can speak to your parents about what is going on and have them talk to her family.

You may be the only one that can really help her. I hope you will help her to do the right thing for herself. Good Luck~*

Answer 3

Not much.. other than let her know you are there for her when she needs it. Advice her to get out of the bad situation. Other than that if you get too invovolved the guy will make her think that you are only out to break them up and then she may stop talking to you altogether. Just give advice and use caution if you want to remain in this person's life who seems like she is probably being controlled by him too if he's hurting her.

Answer 4

You can be there for her but understand that if she is staying in an abusive relationship you cannot force her to stop. She needs to develope greater self esteem and maybe you can help her with that by going places with her and pointing out all of her good qualities. If she is in danger than risk her friendship and notify her parents.

Answer 5

Oh, better leave the guy. Martyrs are no longer accepted in this NEW WORLD. It is already clear as the broad daylight that she's a battered woman.

Answer 6

Maybe try to let her know of your concern and tell her you'll be there for her when she decides to let go of him. Try not to judge her, she is a lover not a fighter. Just try to be a role model for her.

Answer 7

She's only stuck if she wants to be stuck. If she is aware that he is a jerk, it's her option to stay.

Answer 8

There is not really anything you can do.Your friend has to be the one to make a decision about this relationship.Just be there for your friend.

Answer 9

Will you should tell her/him that they need to move on cause they can do bad all by theyre self

Answer 10

she needs to know what is going on and what you are seeing. perhaps find someone who will treat her better and let her see that she wasn't treated right in her relationship