She has hade my check book and my pay check for 4 years and totly screwded my credit o yes she is over wait becous i depresser her i hav asked her to leve she will not whot do i do?
2006-07-05 18:59:43 · 9 answers · asked by William L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She has had you under her control for 4 years so she is not going to just walk out the door because you asked her to leave. You have to open the door and PUSH, lock the door behind her.
2006-07-05 20:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call Focus On The Family 1-800 AFamily and get the book Love And Respect. You read the love part and start implementing it. Maybe she will care enough and read the respect part and you will both be happier. Someone has to give first.
2006-07-06 02:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you'd rather allow this control freak to run your life than to completely break it off? If she won't leave, call the police and have her escorted out of your home. Take back control of your life. Strap on some b*lls and be a man! Don't let her walk all over you anymore!! Why are you letting her have all this power over you?
2006-07-06 08:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just reason with her , get to where her pain is and why she is mess you up mostlikly is she's hurting over something you have done or said , also open up a new account and have your checks sent to that account , and if you want her to leave give her something to go on or give her something to move on about like a car woman like new cars and you could get her a place to live , like rent her a place for a few months and tell her she has to start paying her own way after that , be a nice guy and it will get you what you want
2006-07-06 02:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is some what your fault to. No one person should be in charge of the finances. That is some thing that should be shared by both. Well if you don't want to be with her and she won't leave, then you leave. Sounds like the two of you need to sit down and talk things out.
2006-07-06 05:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce the freak before you get screwed like I did by my mental ex.
2006-07-06 02:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about i kick her a$$, hog tie her up and take back your check book and pay check, COWGIRL UP on her a$$, pack up her sh-it and put it all out on the curb then sue her for the money she took
2006-07-06 02:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by SUNSHINE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have children? if not tell her to pack her bags, she dont rule your life. Things are easier said than done but dont waste your time with someone u dont want to be with!
2006-07-06 02:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by rkatrina80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops that is stealing and harassment. i hope you can get rid of her.
2006-07-06 02:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gangsta Geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋