It seems like she is in it for the money.
2006-07-05 18:50:52 · 19 answers · asked by a k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your brother is a man. Let him be a man. If you trust his judgment, trust his ability to pick and choose an appropriate wife. Try and relax and not become consumed with doubt. Give his fiance the benefit of the doubt. Besides, if you attempt to speak to your brother about your suspicions, he will become upset, and distance himself from you at a time when he needs you and your other siblings the most. Best wishes.
2006-07-05 18:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just be there for your brother.If she does hurt him don't be like I told you so or anything like that.Just let him cry on your shoulder.I know from experience.Love is blind so no matter what you say he is going to do what he wants and if marrying her is what makes him happy just be supportive.It might surprise you.I tried to tell my brother that his wife was cheating and all it did was make me out to be the bad person and make my brother mad at me not her.From that point on I stayed out of it.It took a few years but they did get a divorce.It wasn't until his divorce that he said he was sorry to me.He is now married to his second wife and they have 3 beautiful kids.He had no kids with his first wife T.G. When someone in your family is in Love with someone that's all they see and breathe.If she is what makes him happy,just be happy for him.Don't look at what might happen just be there if something bad does happen.
Good Luck!
2006-07-06 02:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry nothing you can do, but pick up the pieces. Making him chose between you, or letting him know that you don't trust her creates a rift. Try to persuade him that a prenup is a good idea. Tell him that's it's not that you don't trust her, but to make sure that the terms are spelled out in case they get a divorce. Tell him he can put a sunset clause in that says if they last 8 yr the prenup is automatically dissolved. If you do anything overt you'll risk losing him.
2006-07-06 01:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by jadeaaustin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. You do not have the right to tell your brother who, when, how, to get married. Remember she is gonna be a part of your family for a long time. If she is after the money He will figure it out. Best thing for you all to do is SMILE really nice and be polite and let him come to grip with it and be there when he needs you..
God bless & Hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-07-06 01:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can definatly make his marriage a living hell by not being supportive. Do your best to not show your dislike for her.
If you find concrete evidence that she has stolen something from him, then go to him. Otherwise MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS
You guys have the choice to ruin the lives of many. Don't do it
2006-07-06 01:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your brother. Support his decision. And if you turn out to be right, be there for him. But you can't run his life for him, all you can do is love and support him and help him if it turns out bad.
2006-07-06 01:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by purple dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it.. tell him ur concerns.. i mean after all blood is thicker then water... and if something is bothering you about her, he may not see it cause hes in love with her....
Just tell him u guys wanna have a talk, and dont like push into it like gradually go unto the convo...
Hope everything works out
2006-07-06 01:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should play a trick on her like are we there yet? and not letting them get married. then tell her that your brother said that she look like beyonce then yell a big !SIKE! then laugh as hard as you can
2006-07-06 01:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by shaneka77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything you may risk damaging a relationship with ur brother and she is not worth it wait until the time is right ,remember love is blind and u will have to wait till he sees it himself
2006-07-06 01:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that you are concerned but it is his choice. Try talking to him and if that doesn't work there's not much you can do. I watch a lot of Dr. Phil!
2006-07-06 01:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by my2catsn1dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋