My husband's mistress always cooks him dinner on my stove and leaves it disgusting. She's always there when I am at work, so should I just leave her a note telling her to clean it?
2006-07-05 18:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by tortasinqueso 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's rude to ask company to do your housework. The only polite thing to do is clean up after her. Try to get your husband to pitch in once in a while, but don't be pushy about it. You wouldn't want to lose him!
2006-07-05 18:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by MattEMatt 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is right and proper to expect that if someone borrows an object of yours that you should have it returned in the same or better shape than it was before. If she refuses to clean up after herself, basically refuse her permission from using it in the future until such time that you can trust that she'll assume the duty of cleaning up.
By the way, I'm not making any judgments regarding this type of relationship. My response above is applicable to anyone. (For those having trouble with the relationship, try substuting "daughter" for "mistress" and answer based on that.) Hope that helps.
2006-07-07 05:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would come home early and have a little talk with her. Who does she think she is leaving a mess like that! Tell her you aren't the maid and to clean up after herself!
I wouldn't stand for that!!!!!
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2006-07-05 19:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she's not a good mistress she's forgetting the fact of the mystery part. and if you know about her maybe she just doesn't care because you haven't left your husband yet
2006-07-05 18:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by william R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have your husband do it. Perhaps he'll have the mistress clean it up for him (^.^)
2006-07-05 18:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont leave a note...Throw her out of your house...what the hell is she doing in ur house with ur husband???
2006-07-05 18:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a dog and train it to soil itself at command. Think about it.
2006-07-05 18:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like a man. Women will do anything for oral sex and jewelery.
2006-07-06 17:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and if that doesnt work call her and if that still doesnt work tattoo it on your husbands chest.
2006-07-05 19:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i thnk so!! And tell her its ur order!!
2006-07-05 21:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋