How can I teach my son to treat women with respect and love when..?

Question

all he see's at home is his father mistreat me?

Answer 1

Quit allowing the father to mistreat you. Yes, you are allowing it by tolerating it.

You need to make police reports, Get a restraining order, Get a divorce. Tell your parents, tell his parents, tell your church. tell the cops, tell the fireman, tell the neighbors, tell his friends, tell your friends, tell his boss, tell your boss. Quit helping him abuse you.. Stop hiding it. Get out of there. Your job is to parent that child. Reach inside you and find the Momma bear.

Would you take that crap from your MOM, DAD, Brother, sister, cousin? Then why would you take it from him?

Your child and you are in danger. There is a woman dying every 30 seconds in this country from someone they LOVE... Don`t become part of them..

Praying for you...
God bless & Hugs from Texas. {:-)
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Answer 2

Get rid of the dad if he is that bad i mean let him see his child but do not be with him if he is mistreating you because your son will end up with mixed signals on how to treat people. Maybe if he does not see it so much he will become a better man. Just make sure you let him know that the way that dad treats women is not right and that it is abusive and that he should respect women and show them the love and appreciation that we need.

Answer 3

You should show your son that women deserve respect by leaving the man that mistreats you. The longer you stay, the more acceptable that behavior is to your child. If his father mistreats you, he might start mistreating his child if he doesn't already. No one should tolerate abuse of any form.

A single parent family is better for your child than a two parent family with one abusive parent. Learn to respect yourself and your child will respect you.

Answer 4

My question for you is, why are you with someone that mistreats you. Its going to be a little difficult, to teach you son how to treat a woman when he see how his own mom is being treated. You need to leave that *** and get your own place with your son, then you could tell your son how he should treat women, because you know how you are suppose to be treated. but while your there putting up with his abuse, your son sees everything, lose the asshole and tell your son that wasnt how you were suppose to treat women.

Answer 5

fortunelately i dont have a son and my husband doesnt mistreat me but i would think that depending on the age he is i would espress how you feel when your husband mistreats you and explain to him that women dont like that and that in order to "earn" respect from a women that you should be polite and respect of her body and feelings. I would use examples of give him examples and ask him what he would do and then correct him or explain to him what to do if he doesnt know. But if you have to i would leave the person your with and find someone that cares about your childs upbringing and you.

Answer 6

thats how it was in my house...but then my mom divorced my dad! my brother doesn't really hav any problems with mistreating women, just me, but that may be because i'm the "mean" big sister. my mom and dad have both told him that the way he saw my dad act was totally wrong. hopefully his father will grow sum balls and teach your son the right way to act. if he never does than you could always have him hang around some other respectful men he's familiar with like an uncle or grandpa. they will show him whats right.

Answer 7

Ditch the messed up dad and find a guy who'll treat you and your son right. If he mistreats you, you should move on an quit living under the same roof. If that doesn't work, get a restraining order.

Answer 8

Unfortunately he is learning how not to. If the mistreatment is abuse than I suggest to report it. No one should tolerate abuse.

You may want to sign your son up for a Big brothers afterschool program. He need to have a positive male role model. He may have several avenues which can help counteract what his father is showing him.

Answer 9

ya need to teach him some rules what i did with my bro since i have no children he was just like your son what ya do is everytime he mistreats a women take away something he likes like a video game or something and when he does something respectful to a woman give it back

Answer 10

get the bloody HELL OUT, and TAKE HIM WITH YOU! go to a domestic violence shelter. if you are afraid to do that, Call a friend, or the police. sexy_love is completely nuts claiming that it's better to have your son grow up whatching his father MISTREAT his mother.