We have recently been seeing more of each other. And atleast on my part, I have been feeling sexual tension when we're alone. Do you think I should tell her to see if she has similar feelings?
2006-07-05 18:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by kevingolberg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should at least give her some clue. maybe she feels the same way. Just be careful, if she doesn't it could just make things weird. Take her out somewhere nice and do things you would do on a date and see how she responds.
2006-07-05 18:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by nightshade_deadly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should tell her about your personal issue with having sexual feelings when your alone and around her. But i do know that from being a girl and experiencing everything, that you should be polite and honest at the same time and let her know how you feel about her and that if she would to reject you that you would still be her friend (that's if you wanted to though)
2006-07-05 18:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by p1inkpanth3r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do and she don't my only advice is it will ruin your friendship on a personal level but if she does have similar feeling you could make a great couple so in your own mind you know more than I do about the situation so you decide.
2006-07-05 18:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by thegreatone3381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a good long look at what you feel, if its entirely sexual, let it go, but if you actually ahve feelings for this girl and want to persue a realtionship, ask her out on a date, and be sure she knows its a date. See where it goes from there.
2006-07-05 18:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and u should do it fast so u dont lose your chance cuz then you'll never feel right like if she has a bf and she talks about him infront or to u you will only put on a happy mask but really u are tearing up inside.
2006-07-05 18:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Groovy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation you are. i told her i liked her and i didn't care if she liked me i asked her if we could still be friends and she said she didn't like me like that but she was still going to be my friend. me and her are still hanging out more and more and so if you want to tell her then go ahead but if you are afraid of loseing her as a friend then don't tell her. try spending more time with her.then see what happens.
2006-07-05 18:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by bloch_andrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 4 it she should be feeling the same way!!
2006-07-05 18:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jaquah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think but this is my opinion... the best way is ethier text or im.... so u dont actully have to say it ( u know what i mean ) Tell her * I like u * and i hope u like me ..... I hope this wont change our friendship .........Break it to her EASY... u know hun.... it aint easy
~Taryn<3
2006-07-05 18:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Living with the regret of not asking is the worst.
2006-07-05 18:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya sure
2006-07-05 18:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋