Have you met someone who was irresistible?

Question

Are you able to put your finger on why? Probably not, or the mystery would be gone and they would not be irresistible any more. Describe the effect that person has on you.

Any guys take on this one? I know we think differnt in this area.

Any guys take on this one? I know we think different in this area.

Answer 1

Yep, Just now, he tickled my brain.

Answer 2

Very interesting question..as a matter of fact, I discussed this topic in my blog today.
I N F A T U A T I O N... We're all in love with it! Most men and women live in anxious hope of experiencing it as soon as possible... and over and over again... if necessary. The deeper we go into this matter, the more infatuation seems to reflect its dictionary definition as the epitome of foolishness. The experience seems to take conscious choice right out of the picture. When we are infatuated with someone - or something - it is as if we become little love robots, biochemical puppets with no will of our own, without a rational thought in our heads! And what is the stupendous pay-off for what seems to be a love offering of mindless surrender?

How often have you experienced highly erotic and deeply gratifying love-making with someone with whom you were infatuated? How often has the object of your feverish desire turned out to be as you imagined him or her? How many smoldering, day-dreamed passions have actually burst into flame for you? How many times have you been a Fool For Love only to realize within weeks (if you are lucky) or months that there was no love there, only helpless yearning? How many sunny, companionable days have you actually spent with someone you worshipped and longed to possess?

The answers to these questions will tell you there is little happiness in infatuation itself, precious little daily satisfaction is possible while we are acting the Fool For Love. That is because the state of infatuation thrives on distance and frustration. It flourishes under difficult circumstances. It is not magnified by consummation and familiarity.

That said, infatuation cannot exceed its own expectations. It is the spark and the emotional kindling, not a steady, warming fire. It is an appetizer that makes you anticipate the full banquet. But it will not keep you warm and it will not fill you up.

And yes, I've been under the influence of the infatuation drug, can't regret the experience. I know first hand that infatuation is more consciously driven by simple fear of not getting what you have begun to desire. The ultimate question then is how can something so uncomfortable be so irresistible?

Answer 3

Well, I find my bf totally irresistable. He is SO sexy and sweet and we have tons in common and are perfect together! Hes sensual, romantic, gorgeous, exotic and spontanious. I have every girls fantasy for a man and I LOVE talking about him so thanks for giving me the opportunity to do it!!! He makes me feel excited, happier than I ever imagined possible, safe, relaxed and like Im exactly where I was supposed to be my whole life. Its the most amazing feeling I could ever imagine and I wish everyone in the world had the chance to feel this great!!! Its wonderful!!!!

Answer 4

I met someone who was irresistable and he lies beside me ever night. The first time I met my fiancee, my heart stopped, my legs got numb and all I wanted to do was give him a hug. And still after 2 yrs. I still get that woozy feeling in my stomach and he puts a smile on my face everyday.

Your heart beats so fast you can't hear anything else, or it stops and you just want to die. You get numb or start sweating. you have a smile on ur face that you don't even realize you have.

Answer 5

Ya , smile, voice,eye contact....did I mention voice.

Answer 6

ohh yeah and going back for more.

Answer 7

yep and i married him.