im only 12 and my 9 year old friend garry just got in a horrible 4-wheeler wreck and my parents are gettin a divorce.any advice?i dont know how to deal with it.
2006-07-05 18:09:08 · 8 answers · asked by Lil L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like a terrible accident.I hope your friend Garry is recovering from the trauma.Is he alright?
Anyway, it is sad when parents go through divorce....it is like tearing part of your skin and leaving it behind.I feel sad just to think what you are going through.Do not put all the problems together and mess up your own head.Take one day at a time and speak to your parents, tell them how you really feel.If they are too busy sorting things out among themselves, you would still need to find an opportunity to speak to them.
If you are a Christian, pray and i will also keep you in my prayers.
You are not alone for many have gone through dark periods in their life but with God's help they come out victorious.
God bless.Do keep in touch.
2006-07-05 18:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Firefly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is horrible, especially since you're pretty young. This is just one of those times where you have to be more mature than your age.
For Garry: hoping the best in recovery. You should make funny cards or get his favorite foods to make him feel better during his recuperation.
For your parents: know that their splitting up was not your fault and they love you very much. If they fought (which I hope I'm not wrong in assuming they did) isn't it better to see them apart and happy instead of together and miserable. Although it's tearing you apart, look at it in their points of view. They can be better people because they don't fight all the time, and they can be better parents for you. Take care and don't worry, you'll get through this.
2006-07-05 19:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as your parents are concerned. Some people just dont get a long and your life at home will probably be more peaceful. Your parents will still love you the same. All i can say about your friend is that he needs you there for him and i hope he is ok and gets better soon.
2006-07-05 18:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take one day at a time, and know you have your whole life in front of you. You are only 12 you have a lot more life to live and one day this will be a distant memory. When things get bad you have to be strong and get through it.
2006-07-05 18:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by mrkittypong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is very hear touching my friend. The truth is that your mom should get a divorce first, then she could have the house and the custody of the kids. These things take time, so just don't lose hope. best of luck, pray to God.
2016-03-27 05:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on going= don't slow down - if your lucky you might get through before the devil knows your there.
You will survive.
Is your friend going to make it? SUpport them and their family. That will help you focus on something other than your mom and dad's problems. Remember, it is THEIR problem. Even if it DOES effect you a lot.
Good luck
2006-07-05 18:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie, FNP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry about how your life is roolen how is your friend ? you should only focus on your friend cuz u cant do anything about your rents.
I went through that my friend died and my rents split up so if you ever need to talk my email is roxypoxy357@yahoo.com
2006-07-05 18:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by *Shelby* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you gotta let it go just know that it wasn't your fault!!
2006-07-05 18:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jaquah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋