I am 20 and want to be held and cuddled not ina sexual way and prefarably by a female Is this normal ?
2006-07-05 18:08:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes, it is perfectly normal... a woman is cuddly and soft and warm and feels nice. She is a gentle reminder of your mother. Perhaps there was something in your childhood that prevented you from forming a bond with mom...
or perhaps you are exploring your sexuality... either way.. I think it is perfectly normal..
And remember dear, "normal" is just a setting on the washing machine!
2006-07-05 18:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Normal is not necessarily what is normal to others. Everyone has their own normal. You would be an answer to many girl's prayers. Lots of girls want to cuddle in an non-sexual way and get disgusted because there aren't many men that like to do this without it becoming a sexual thing.
2006-07-05 18:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal. We all start out by being held by a female and it felt good. Some people never want to let go of that feeling.
2006-07-05 21:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it reminds you of, or you are fantasizing about, a much simpler time... it could be one of those pre-adolescent memories of your Mothers' touch when it was calm, all comforting and completely safe... I think that's normal. However, if you need to be held all day long, you may need seek out some help for a possible dependency problem.
Good Luck.
2006-07-05 18:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by John Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. It sounds like you want to be held so you feel safe and protected. And considering you want this done by a female one could surmise that your relationship with your mother MAYBE isn't perfect. Either way, I hope you all the best now and in the future.
2006-07-05 18:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by dorito_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say. i like to cuddle butt i dont always want it to be a sexual thing. it just feels good to be able to hold some one in your arms or be held by someone. i have friends that are girls that i have never even attemted to try anything with that i have cuddled with on many occations. but i would not cuddle with a guy cause that would be gay. but girls are alot more... i dont know how to say it but they can do that kinda stuff with each other and its not gay or wrong or anything
2006-07-05 18:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not... that is normal. Kindred spirits or soul mates can be female and you can have a close friend who you hug that is female...which who you feel close to! I love to cuddle and it does not have to be a sexual thing.
I am not gay and I would do the same given the chance. have a good one and feel normal!
Dee
2006-07-05 18:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by mermaideelou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 20's and feel the same way too sometimes. I would much rather sit and cuddle with a guy than do anything physical.
2006-07-05 18:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by SportsFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female? If you are male is normal. If you are female and you want to be held and cuddled by an other female, maybe you have lesbian feelings.
2006-07-05 18:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by dorotheasosial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing you're a girl, right? you want to be cuddled by a girl? that's normal. it doesn't make you a lesbian or bi-sexual. just means you want someone who can understand you emotionally and someone you can talk to. being close with a girl isn't bad at all. however, taking it into the gay realm....for me that's not right (i'm a christian)..but that's your decision of course. *Hug* i know i'm not there to comfort you, but i can hug you over the net! :) IM me anytime or email.
2006-07-05 18:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋