you know how when you like someone for a long time and you tell them you love them yet they get on your nerves but yet you dont want to break up with them but you do then you want tem back do you really want them back or do you just think you do because now you are lonely?
2006-07-05 18:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
like when you break up with someone you really care about but find yourself wanting them back do you really want them back or is it just because now you feel lonely?
2006-07-05 18:14:59 · update #1
i felt this way about my boyfriend
2006-07-05 18:20:03 · update #2
You miss the man you wanted them to be.
2006-07-05 18:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by sweet & sour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. And busy yourself doing things that you enjoy. It is very normal to miss someone. But the feeling should be mutual. If she gets on your nerves, take a break, repair your nerves, and let that individual miss you! Mabe she will calm down a bit, and miss you too! Time heals all (for better or worse).
2006-07-06 01:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by muffin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U been dating to long to same person, variety is the spice of life,
U need a change, or ur nerves and lonely feeling will be there for u
until u make a decision to move on . All life is making decisions, they
could be wrong, or right, u still have to make them regardless. That
is what makes u strong for u learn from ur mistakes and go on ENJOYING
life OKKKK
2006-07-19 23:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by SEERAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend or a boyfriend is the person who share most of your very good time. Even you break up with him or her by some small matters, but noone else will like your girlfriend or your boyfriend who can share so many things in your life.
Yes you will feel alone after you break up with him or her. And if you can not find another one who share most of your time. You will miss him or her more and more as time going on.
Soleilmavis (http://spaces.msn.com/soleilmavis)
2006-07-15 21:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by soleilmavis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend what meaning the person had in your life. In case of breaking with somebody it's always good to make a balance of the reasons why the person is so important to you. At the end you maybe see that relationship wasn't the right one
2006-07-06 01:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by dorotheasosial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are remembering the good times you had together.ask yourself if they out weigh the bad times you two had and if so let him back into your life and work on the getting on your nerves part or did you like him doing that and it makes you smile when you think of it.I use to do that to play around and make her smile when she was depressed or thinking of bad things alot.Good Luck.
2006-07-06 01:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went around, and around, and around like that with a gal, for 5 YEARS!!
NEVER again!! You lose too much ground doing that, AND...
I heard this radio show one morning, talking about a Hand Writing Analyst could tell what kind of relationship I was in by reading hers and mine handwriting. So, I faxed it too her, the lady analyst. GUESS whut she said?
"You and she have personalities have a strong affinity for eahother, but, would take a LOT of COUNSELING to stay together."
Guess how many MORE analyses she did that morning on the radio?
NADDA! NONE!! NOBODY else wanted to hear what that lady told ME!! But, too, nobody likes being told who they are.
2006-07-20 00:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by thewordofgodisjesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with someone who annoys you and your having all these back and forth mixed feelings, you are not mature enough yet for love and need to give a rest for awhile.
2006-07-19 22:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by jim h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about a person or a YoYO?
The problem is you are just so USE to the person that it's feeling really hard to be apart.What you need to do now is experience someone DIFFERENT then you will find yourself getting over Those feelings.
You answered your own though.(sounds like your First?)Thats the hardest one but,trust me try someone different and you'll proably forget the name.
2006-07-06 01:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's a lonliness thing....may I suggest that you check out a book by Josh Harris called "I Kissed Dating Godbye"....I would also add that we always try to find satisfaction through a bf/gf, but it really only comes through God. Check out John ch. 4 in the Bible.
2006-07-06 01:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by John A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I broke up with my girlfriend I really would like to get back with her but then she really annoys me and then i am really lonely when i think about her.
Can you help me out with my question?
2006-07-06 01:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋