well, evans, first you have to have something else happening that doesn't have anything to do with sex. when you've reached that point be aggresive, although not too much so (remember, no means no!). tell her, while standing, that you are enjoying her company and, offering your hand to help her stand, say, lets see whats happening in the bedroom. evans, with any luck, or charm, she will stand up and take your lead. good luck!
2006-07-05 18:11:30
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answered by fooz1 4
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It usually happens by becoming physical first, as opposed to walking in the door and asking her if she wants to go to bed.
Start with conversation. Listen closely to what she says and observe body language. Once you get the hang of this, you'll know whether she wants you before you even go any further, but you still have to go through the ritual or she'll be offended.
Start with some benign physical contact - holding a hand or a caress on the shoulder and move on to kissing from there. Test how far she's willing to go with your hands - PATIENTLY. First around the waist, then to the lower back, then lower still. If there are no objections, move your hands back to her waist in front and and work your way up until you are caressing her breasts. If there are no objections still, move downward.
At this point you can be reasonably certain she wants you, so you can step up the pace somewhat. If she STILL doesn't object, you can just come right out and ask her if she wants to go to your bed. Odds are if you get this far and don't ask, she'll ask you anyway.
Whew! Is it hot in here or what!?
2006-07-06 01:11:13
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answered by lenny 7
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The women that you actually ASK to go to bed with you are called hookers. A woman that WANTS to have a physical relationship with you will let you know. If you have to ask a question like that then you must be like 12 years old and don't know what you're doing anyway, or you're just an a**. Sounds like you are the type of guy that gives us REAL men a bad name. Get a life and go spank it.
2006-07-06 01:09:26
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answered by rsqur 3
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You said she have been to your house before...
Go to your room and say that you are going to watch a movie. turn off lights and lay on the bed. Try to get close to her and start rubbing her. Find her sensitive points. She will understand!!!
2006-07-06 01:04:48
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answered by Pblo... 1
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Is she conscious? Unless you are a 40 year old virgin or an adolescent you shouldn't be having this trouble. In which case you should just wait.
2006-07-06 01:15:51
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answered by sweet & sour 6
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well if you have the balls to ask that, then you have the balls to take some advice,,,, where do you get off asking how? maybe you need to grow up first? she's not a play toy and how dare you treat her as such.... gag to you
2006-07-06 01:03:13
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answered by Tainted_Halo 3
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treat her nice let her know your keen and if she is interested wait for it to happen dont push to hard 4 a response or you loose your dash and feel like a dick
2006-07-06 01:04:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't do this. Just give her flowers and keep on being nice with her and let her decide when she will join you in bed.
2006-07-06 01:02:40
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answered by John Luke 5
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hey lady wanna earn $13 the easy way?
2006-07-06 01:03:35
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answered by glock509 6
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you don't just ask her start a relationship first and don't let your EGO that is way too big get in the way of a potential relationship
2006-07-06 01:04:56
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answered by HipHopHottie 1
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