Well my friend and i are always together we are in sepraetable! i'm always with him and we go everywhere together. My friends ask me why we are not together and i don't know what to tell them. When we are together we are always playing around and then we look into each others eyes!its amazing! What should i do? he has a girlfriend and he knows i've never had a boyfriend....or a serious one.
2006-07-05 17:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask yourself a few questions first.... if you told him how you feel would it ruin your friendship,second could he feel the same,third would you make a capable couple. The best couples that have long lasting relationships are friends first.If you really care and love him then show him that you are the perfect one for him.
2006-07-05 18:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ka'De 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know It's painful to have a crush on someone or feel in love with person and they may not share those same feelings. But if your best-friend have a girlfriend, I think it wouldn't be wise to come between that it could destroy your friendship with your best friend.
You also mention that you have never really had a real boyfriend. This might account for your strong feelings for your best-friend. He is probably the closes male to you besides your male family members. Try to be more social get out and meet some guys, or just focus on learning more about yourself so you can attract the right guy. Plus you never know what the future holds.
2006-07-06 01:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to tell you to tell him! I have missed my best friend now for over ten years. I, unfortunately, have not seen him for nine years. His name is Pete and he was so awesome. I cared so much for him and still think about him all the time. He is the one man I would go anywhere with, all he'd have to do is ask. I'm sure a lot of people would tell you not to say anything but after so many years I really miss him and desperately want him back in my life. I try to make sure not to leave things undone now and I never want to think about "what if". missing U my Italian stallion
2006-07-06 01:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he already has a gf, if its recent u should just act normal like u usually would, dont act all sad or anything or else it might make him feel bad and he would ask u whats the matter and it woud be awkward. If it doesnt seem like he likes her that much and u notice then u should just talk 2 him and tell him how u feel and if ur afraid of wrecking ur friendship, dont be, if u guys r best friends u'll work it all out (:
2006-07-06 01:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by nikegirlluvsbball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ur friend...u share evrything with him.. and the first thing tht u shud know abt frndship is honesty..
BE truthful and tell him wht u think abt him.. and if u fear the fact tht u might loose a good frnd.. think again..
Its better u try and repent thn nvr try and repent..
also think abt the fact whther u wud be happy with him.. .if the answer is yes..go ahead and talk..
All the best ..
2006-07-06 01:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rockin' Roadster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur heart more than twice it will defnetly ans u. i said this words b'coz in love heart is leading judge than mind. if u think he has everything good, that a guy whom u love must have u can proceed ur love. but before that u should know about the guy & his girlfriend relation b'coz no girl will let her boy friend to be others not even me. anyways ALL THE BEST.
2006-07-06 01:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by KRISHNAPPA P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to let him know, but don't tell him directly because he might feel overloaded, instead give him a hint that you want to be more than just friends, Of course you don't want to help him cheat, but maybe, you never know he will leave his girlfriend for you, but if he says no, don't be crushed.
best wishes
2006-07-06 01:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by ☻Cool Beans☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't destroy his relationship whatever you don- then Karma will come back for you- wait til he is single and then express your feelings, if he is that of great of a friend you should be able to work things out.
2006-07-06 01:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by nexus2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT KEEP YA FRIENDSHIP THERE NOTHING BETTER THEN A TRUE FRIEND AN IF YA START DATING THINGS COULD GO WRONG AN THEY WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGIN DO YA WANNA RISK YA FRIENDSHIP ASK YA SELF THAT.
2006-07-06 01:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, ITS THE HONEST THING TO DO. I ALSO HAD A GUY FRIEND AND I TOLD HIM HOW I FEEL, AND NOW WE ARE TOGETHER FOR A TIME NOW.
2006-07-06 01:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋