Or what steps can I take so they don't learn his evil ways ?
2006-07-05 17:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him it's not acceptable for him to treat you in that manner. Tell him it's setting a bad example for your children (Kids are like sponges, if they see their parents do something they will do the same) If they see him doing that then chances are they will start behaving in that same fashion. You need to stop this before it gets worse. Hope this helps.
2006-07-05 17:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. That is a problem. The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
If your husband is yelling about personal issues between the two of you, then walk away when he is yelling and the children are present. If he follows, tell him you will not be talked to that way in front of the children. If the issues are about the children, do the same, only explain that the children need to see that the authority between the two of you is not greater on one end. Otherwise, sadly, the kids will grow to disrespect you. But they will remember when you stand up to your husband and refuse to listen. That they will remember about you with respect.
2006-07-05 18:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in that same situation and it is horrible. Get counseling with or without your husband and if need be get a divorce. Children should not have to live like that. They will grow up and treat their spouses that way or marry people who treat them that way. If your husband loves you he will work on this with you and stop this detrimental behavior. Do you know that's abuse? Would you let him beat you? Don't let him emotionally and verbally abuse you. That kind of abuse can leave scars for longer than physical abuse.
2006-07-05 18:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sarrah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your children every chance you get that everyone is a person of value and it is not okay to humiliate other people.
Then, stand up to him, tell him you won't put up with his behavior. Offer anger management/counseling. If he doesn't take you up on it, divorce him. He is abusive and it is more harmful to your children to have him around than it is to have a single mom.
Good Luck! And stay tough! Your kids deserve better and so do you!
2006-07-05 17:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to counseling this is a sing of an abuser.. he obviously has control issues... Now on a lighter side..... Next time he yells at you in front of the kids take a ball bat and hit him right in his mouth that will stop him from teaching your boys to be abusers and the girls that this is acceptable behavior for men to treat them like....
2006-07-05 17:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds basically like my husband purely he places some different determination words in there additionally. He cusses in front of our boys too. I even have defined to my oldest(my different son is purely a 12 months previous so he's no longer saying them yet) that those are undesirable words and that he can no longer say them outdoors of our homestead. I even have defined to my husband that if our son gets in hassle for cussing at school, i will invite which notice he suggested, and if it fairly is one that I say, then i will flow communicate over with the college, yet whilst it fairly is taken under consideration one of roughly six that he says generally, he gets to flow communicate over with the college by way of himself. so some distance as your husband's temper is going, my husband has a temper additionally and that i've got talked to him approximately it different situations besides the fact that it would not seem to do any reliable, so in case you have already talked to him approximately it and he won't or can no longer substitute, then you definitely'll ought to be certain in case you may extremely stay with him and his temper, or devoid of him. All i will advise is probably see if he will communicate over with a counselor or some thing and get out interior the open what's fairly bothering him deep down that he thinks he has to apply that form of communicate in front of your little ones. He could or won't agree and if he won't do it then if I have been you i could think lower back if its properly worth staying or no longer. reliable success and God Bless
2016-12-14 04:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by baron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are going to separate and go with your children to your mothers house or a friends house or a sisters house. Then wait for him to apologize and go back then let him know that if he ever starts a fight in front of your children or physically abuses you again that you are leaving forever. After that don't speak with him except for when it's about divorce terms or your children.
2006-07-05 17:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can leave, that would get rid of it all right there, and if that don't work girl get up all the hate and anger you got deep inside you, and when he does that slap the taste straight out of his mouth, and don't you stop till you feel better..What an a$$ I hate men like that, nothing but a bunch of losers men like that. Good luck to ya!
2006-07-05 18:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by red_neck_biker_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband if he continues to verbally abuse you in front of your children you will leave him and take the children with you.
2006-07-05 17:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mary F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could consider seeing a counselor for this situation. they could give effective strategies on both stopping the behavior and teaching the kids what not to do. make sure its something you would BOTH attend. let him know you are there with him the during the whole transition. do you think this is something he would agree to??
2006-07-05 17:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by hatianhottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋