I have this friend that i feel like I am treated like dirt when i am around her. She tells me that I am her best friend in the world! But it is the total opposite when we are at school. What should i do??
2006-07-05 17:37:50 · 15 answers · asked by kenzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is exactly like a problem I have!!! my bff? always ignores me, gives me the cold shoulder, and just ditches me for other friends and with other friends. I just think if I really want a friend like her, and u should just think if you realy want a friend like her. like, does she really help you?, does she act differant when you two are alone?, and does she care?.
2006-07-05 17:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by La_Di_Da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that means she is not actually a true friend. you should tell her how you feel. that you are treated like dirt and that you don't appreciate that at all. she should understand if she says you are her best friend in the world. tell her a friend should be treated with respect and treated like a brother or sister.
2006-07-06 00:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by illoovveenewyork 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend is a friend no matter what and if this friend of urs treats u different that tells u that she might not be there for u as ur for her . U should think about u and not about her telling ur her best friend, who's YOUR BEST FRIEND is what it counts. Think about it u wouldn't like to do the same think to someone who consider u a best friend.
2006-07-06 00:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Carlos M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it! Politly ask her why she treats you differently when it's you two than in school. Try to be as nice as possible, but don't be a pushover. If she doesn't have a good reason then she's not a real friend.
2006-07-06 00:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mini Cheeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like I'm the only guy who is answering this question. I had a problem like that once. Usually that person doesnt know he/she is doing that, but sometimes they do. First you should tell her you feel this way. Then see what happens next.
2006-07-06 00:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her at school. Make her feel bad for being a witch. She might be using you when she's not in school or maybe (and I know this is aweful) she believes she is better than you and is ashamed to be around you. If this is so, you should not be around her.
2006-07-06 00:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is embarrassed around you, like she is ashamed! Why would you want a friend like that? You are too good for her.....find a nicer friend who likes you no matter who you are or where you are, etc.....don't let people hurt you...step up and be strong! Good luck!
2006-07-06 00:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by MNM0103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be her friend you will talk to her about why she does that. If you just want to be over with it, ignore her. If she wants to hang out say no, your not the kind of friend I want right now. Hope this helps!!
2006-07-06 00:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a sit down talk with her and tell her that you do care about her and also start paying more attention to her at school!
2006-07-06 00:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what is wrong with her attitude. If she is your friend, then she will try to change it. Otherwise, well she is not your only friend right?
2006-07-06 00:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Just drop by 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋