i'm bi right...?

Question

and some of my friends don't wanna face the facts that i like both sexes and they don't want to be like that bi and stuff so i wanna tell them something right but knowing me i'll be really mean to them so i wanna know if theres a way to tell them in a nice way because it's very hard for me to come up with nice things to say it's not like me to say nice things so i really need help for this problem

Answer 1

If you are congratulation,be proud who you are.

Answer 2

Why do you have a need to tell them?

If you're around a girl and she's bi, curious or receptive you should easily know that. If she's not you shouldn't even consider going into that direction.

With guys, every guy is expecting to do you. That must get tiring (and do you want to be that way with other girls, always just know them or be with them to get a piece?).

Get my point.

So why talk about it.

You couple with a guy and say, wow it's great being hetero like this.

You couple with a girl and you say, wow it's great being homo like this!

Gimme a break!

You're telling people just for impact.

People don't go around saying I'm an Atheist, Catholic, Jew, Muslim. They just are and only talk about when someone says something that requires a response.

Hetros don't go around saying their hetro!

Why do gays and bi's wanna tell the world. What, it's like you have a virus and some people might want to wear a mask if they only knew?

Hi, I'm (name) I'm a bisexual, vegan, Hindu who always votes along the Socialist Party lines in elections and I dye my hair blonde, not that anyone can determine that since I shave, but of course that won't be applying to you because I don't want do anything with you. Nice to meet you.

Answer 3

It seems that you have some cause to bring your friends in on your sexuality, probably because you for some reason share information on your possible activities and desires. The simplest way of informing them of your orientation is to state it matter-of-factly. I think that you fear a negative reaction on your friend's part, and that appears to be the case. Nonetheless, do not concede anything that is true about you. You also need not be belligerent, just bite your tongue and allow your friends to overcome their initial reactions. Reaffirm your position exactly the same way as the first time that you say it and you should avoid esculating any hostile emotions on theirs part.

I would guess that eventually your friends, unless they're flakes, will learn to accept you as you are. You may wish to not discuss your sexuality openly afterward unless they express genuine interest as some person, good people included, will disagree with what you might do, but still be able to see you as a person otherwise. That is, don't shove it down their throats. Only time will tell how your relationships with your friends evolve.

I wish you good fortune in your relationships. But never forget that the most important relationship that you'll ever have is the one with yourself.

Answer 4

Dear friend, there's no such thing,
as saying something, in a nice way.
People will always take it however it
pleases them.
However, I do know a truth or two,
about all this.
You are a very romantic, and platonic being.
To see the world, to love, and feel,
regardless off ?
That my dear, is living in love with the human race. Matters not the sex of the object
of your affection, matters not who you
find pretty or sexy.
The real lovers of the world, come in all
kinds, from heteros, to gay, bi , transgendered,
transexual, the list is big.
But loving, without regards to sex, or gender,
IS DIVINE...

Answer 5

okay, I have noticed you have nothing but beer bellied perverts answering your question. I'd say hang out with them more, not saying making a total move on them, but let them know they can still be kewl around you...if you do that, then who knows, they may have another female friend who is into the same as you. Keep your friends, that way...you may find what you are looking for. Think about it, a guy talks to a girl he likes and sometimes ends up dating her because her friends liked him. In your case, your friends may know someone they can eventually hook you up with. If not now, then later on...people meet people every day, hang in there. Don't abandon friends even if you are interested in one of them (not saying you are) but they may one day help you out on the question you are posting.

Answer 6

huh? run-on sentence much?

I don't understand, do your friends already know that you're bi and don't like it? Or are they just generally homophobic and you haven't said anything yet?

If you've told them and they're mean about it, maybe they aren't good friends to have. Friends accept you for who you are. Seriously. Sounds corny, but actually it's true.

If you haven't told them, just try the direct approach. If there's any one friend you're particularly close with, or who you think would be more open to accept you, tel her first, and work your way around the group.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Bisexuality in human sexual behavior refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual desire for people of either gender and/or for people of either sex. For some writers, the term is parallel to homosexuality and heterosexuality, while for others the term expresses a blend of the two.

Bisexual orientation can fall anywhere between the two extremes of homosexuality and heterosexuality; a bisexual person is not necessarily attracted equally to both genders, and many tend to prefer one or the other. Moreover, it is possible for a bisexual person to be attracted to all genders but only one sex, or to all sexes but only one gender. Another view of bisexuality is that homosexuality and heterosexuality are two monosexual orientations, whereas bisexuality encompasses them both. However, some argue that bisexuality is a distinct sexual orientation on a par with heterosexuality or homosexuality.

Trust yourself. Never sell yourself short.

Answer 8

If they ask, tell them that u r attracted to both sexes. Its not contageous, its just a feeling inside. It's not like somebody taking a liking to football because they are around it. its a private thing, or mostly so.

Answer 9

well if you are Bi then you are..
you can ask your friends if they are friends with you because of your sexuality or because of who you are.
maybe they are afraid that you might want a piece of them or something... (that's a possibility0

I think they think they lost a friend who they could share secrets about sex among other things.

Answer 10

Just tell them if its eating at you like this. Get it over with. IF they don't like you for you they weren't real friends anyway. Although they might wonder why you telling them and think you are attracted to them tell them anyway.

Answer 11

if you really feel like you need to tell people... i dunno. you know what i would do hon? walk up to your best friend and out of the blue.. say IM BISEXUAL. say it like you mean it, and mean it when you say it. once you're out... you're out. you dont have to explain yourself. .thats kind of how i did it anyway... we were walking down the street and suddenly the spirit moved me and i grabbed my friend, looked her straight in the eye and said IM HOMOSEXUAL. then i made out with her roommate which was nice. you dont have to be mean about it. being mean seems insecure... maybe you should just wait until you are secure enough not to be mean? there's no rush... it's your journey, not theirs. good luck :)