what should I do with my girlfriend?

Question

If im 15 and my girlfriend is 20 and we had sex but I dont tell anyone she cant get in trouble right. Or if someone did find out, but I said it was ok would she be in trouble?

Answer 1

Good job in landing a 20 year old. I am not sure what you should do except keep hittin it.

Answer 2

The laws vary from state to state and so does the punishment "if" a law is broken. The majority of states have an age limit for minors cohabitating with adults.
Generally speaking, states that have an age restriction of 21 for "legally" consuming alcohol in establishments, also treat those over the age of 16 or 18 as adults when criminal activities are committed.
Certain states would consider someone over the age of 12, as one to be tried in an adult court for capital offenses.
Statutory rape, or rape committed with a minor is a serious offense, as was the case with certain teachers having sex with their students. She received a six year prison sentence of which she was parolled, and while on parole committed the "crime" of seeing her young lover. Back to jail she went to complete her sentence, of which once freed for serving her time, she married her younger sweetheart.
Given the outcome of the case, whereas both are now adults and married, who did she hurt that warrented such punishment?
It seems we think of a male who is an adult, having sex with a minor a much more serious offense then a female adult having sex with a minor.
As stated, laws vary from area to area. The best thing is to keep secret your affair and hope that nobody finds out that could have your girlfriend arrested and charged. Also, remember this, a secret is only a secret when only one person knows about it....once two people know about it, soon a lot more will.

Answer 3

I think that you are both in trouble. That could result to a long-time trouble. Not with your parents and not with each other but with yourselves. Premarital sex can cause insecurities and guilt that you may not realize now but later. Sex really gives a satisfaction but it does not give you a once and for all satisfaction. It gives you the kind of satisfaction that is addictive. Hormones could dictate it. It makes you crave for it. And sex is an addiction that is hardest to overcome. Because although you may do it with a non-significant person in your life... it makes feel loved and cherished. Touch could do wonders. A hug and a kiss could make you feel good. But my advise is... go for the GENUINE TOUCH.. what feels good is not always right.. Do you love your girlfriend?

Answer 4

yes
even though you may have consented
even if the state age min was 15
she is an adult and thus hold influence over you
and can be prosecuted accordingly
as the law takes into context you do not have full capcity to make sound legal life altering judgements for yourslef

Answer 5

Depends on the state you live in. Some states have an age of consent as low as 13.

Answer 6

She can only get into trouble if your parents wanted to press statutory rape charges. Don't worry. Have fun..enjoy her. She will likely teach you a lot.

Answer 7

two things u just told some one. last thing no if u dont say any thing u'll be ok...but if u tell any one who wiil report it, even if u said it was ok, no it wouldn't be ok...it would be considered statitory rape(not sure on spelling) but yeah it's just better if u dont say any thing till ur 18. If ur still going out

Answer 8

15 is a bit young mate, and she sounds a bit desparate. Move on! But yeah, she can go to jail - that should be telling or something? She sounds like a loser.

Answer 9

she can get into alot of trouble if she 20 it called rape

Answer 10

Why did u date a 20 year old when your 15 thats dumb..... :}