My first wife and I met through her family who I had slept with all the women in the family before meeting and marrying her. We moved away and divorced shortly thereafter. I never heard from any of them. In the meantime I got them all pregnant at various times prior to my marriage over the course of a few months. I recently got a call from my Ex's mother who told me about all my children I never knew about. They're in their early 30's now and want to meet me. I feel very akward about the multiple relationships because of all the kids. It was fine with all of us in the late 60's when I was being switched around. Now I have 4 children I never knew to explain to the 4 children I already have. It's not that I don't want to meet them, its just that all their mothers still turn me on and I know I'd want to be with all of them again. I'm single, but how can I be with all 4 women again and live the life O'Rielly with all these adults in tow? Should I give it a try or just pass?
2006-07-05 16:55:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You would think that two (or more) mature adults would know what causes "all those children".
2006-07-05 17:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weird. How do you sleep at night. First forget the women. I would want proof they were your children. Seems like if they were years ago they would want you to pay child support. If you believe they are your children then meet your children. Don't make yourself a saint. It just isn't there. Communicate with your children but don't expect miracles. You have to decide whether to try or pass. It's your conscience.
2006-07-06 00:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by sally_little03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR children deserve to know where they came from. They may truely want a relationship with you, or maybe tell you what a jerk you were leaving their mothers to raise them on their own, and them growing up not knowing who their father was, why they maybe have features, addictions or worse, illness, that came from your genes. I, myself, have a half brother or two, who I met at the age of 28. I never looked like the other kids, who favored my mom. My dad drank excessively, did drugs, missed every "important" event in our childhood lives, was physically abusive, and never could face up and take responsibility for his actions. To this day, I am the only one speaking to him...not because I love him, but, rather because he is, after all, my father.
As far as your sexual desires?...YOU have to live with YOURSELF...what kind of a shallow jerk do you want to be remembered as anyway? Give YOUR kids a break! Do something for someone other than YOURSELF!
2006-07-06 00:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by sandy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your kids want to meet you, great, meet them. I hope they are gonna rip you a new one. You fathered an entire family within a family. AND THEN, you were not in any of thier lives.
Piece de'resistance............you still want to get with all the moms. You are a jerk. Just hopefully you have enough brain cells to hold meaningful conversations with your kids.
2006-07-06 00:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to only meet the kids, unless the mothers want to have some sort of orgie. Just kidding, meet the kids!
2006-07-06 00:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be in their lives or meet them and get to know them then yes .. I mean although you did not know about the children til recently... you owe them an explanation of your life and I am sure they are very egar to learn about your other children and things you have done in your life.
2006-07-05 23:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope your lying. Else wise your a very bad human being to be even considering wether or not you want to meet your own children. how selfish
2006-07-05 23:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding! Either that, or you can't do math. I was born in '69 and I sure aint in my early 30s!
2006-07-05 23:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classy moralistic family--not
2006-07-05 23:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by airpolicejohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go meet your kids
2006-07-05 23:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer8725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋