2006-07-05 16:48:41 · 36 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jess, if this happened to me this is what I would do honey!!
I would go for a walk with my boyfriend, and be dressed up and feeling great about me.....I would buy a coffee for both of us....then I would sit down with my honey and ask
"hey, why is there a pic of some other honey on your phone?" and await his answer.
I would listen, and then go from there.
I may be walking off alone and resolved and off to find a new honey, or we would have resolved the question ....one way or another...you have you and you are worth a good life.
Period.
luv
Ava
2006-07-05 16:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very upset. Is this a girl that exists in real life?( She lives in town or nearby) or is this a girl that is like a pic of a porn star or celebrity he found on the net? If it is a girl he has regular contact with I would ditch him. That is disrespectful to you. If it is a porn/celebrity girl he does not know I would confront him and tell him that it bothers you he would have that on his phone. Personally, I think it is really immature if he actually has a porn/celebrity girl on his phone and plain disgusting if it is someone he knows. You deserve better than that creep.
2006-07-05 16:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st I'd like to know why were u looking throught his phone in the 2st place? See I always say if u go snopping around and u find something ( why get upset because may be u shouldn't have been looking )
Now I guess either ur gonna have to ask or just forget about it, because he's gonna be pissed that u were looking.
2006-07-05 16:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the loser and make friends first instead of boyfriend/girlfirend. Rushing a relationship often cause problems later on in life. Take your time and grow deep inside of yourself. Gain the confidence you need in yourself. Go to shcool and acheive goals you have set for yourself to create a positive life.
2006-07-05 16:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by elfy1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this picture of someone he knows? Or is it just a picture of some model or something? That would make a difference! If it's someone he knows, then I don't think I have to say anything, you should know what to do. If it's of some model, well, then, maybe he's just being an immature guy. If it's just this and it bothers you, then talk to him about how it makes you feel.
2006-07-05 16:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to make him squirm, say, "so I found this picture on your phone, did that come with it", then dump him. Or you could sign him up for special ed and buy him a crash helmet and a pudding cup and as your presenting them too him tell him, "dumbass, erase your pics" then dump him. Either way, dump him.
2006-07-05 16:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by je6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FROM A GUY please let him explain or it may be your loss. being the sick and twisted person I'm i found it amusing to find,snap and send pics to friends mostly just for the shock factor because that is the last thing you expect to see in church. ha,ha,ha
in most instances the one doing the snooping is the one with the guilty conscience?
2006-07-05 18:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by .common sense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is it of an actual girl or of one he paid 1.99 for through his phone company?
If it's just porn boys will be boys. If it looks like he was the one taking it I'd leave him and give no time for him to explain.
2006-07-05 16:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dream Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it, but get the number that the pic was sent from first. That way if he isn't giving up the goods, you can just call the wanna-be playboy bunny
2006-07-05 16:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by b_sampson98055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him all hot about meeting you and the girl for a threesome at some far away place but tell him you have to meet there separately.
when he leaves to meet you there change all the locks on your house and your phone number too. never talk to the guy again.
2006-07-05 16:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋