how do u let boyfriend rape ur daughter?

Question

how can u forgive boyfriend who raped ur daughter at 13 he went away 1 yr only daughter wasnt wanted after that so aunt i had to take her in as her own wich is me she like my own now mother want

Answer 1

first of all learn some english i have no idea wtf u said

Answer 2

You don't allow this type of sick and insidious behavior to happen; usually it happens and you find out about it later. However, if what you're saying is that the mother realized that this was going on and allowed it then the only plausible explanation is probably that the mother is just as sick as the boyfriend. Not only has the 13 year old suffered a traumatic loss on several different levels, but she has to live with the horrors of the memories associated with this crime for the rest of her life. I hope that he has been brought to justice, and am glad that you have stepped in on the child's behalf to protect and obviously give her the love she so desperately deserves and needs. You are a very loving and compassionate person, and one day I am sure that she will let you know by becoming the person that you seem to be...........Bless you both....

Answer 3

You don't. You tell your "boyfriend" to seek psychiatric help, you look for a professional opinion to see if he's safe to have around, and if he refuses to seek psychiatric help, you break up with him and report him to the police.

An apology is not enough for you to forgive him. He needs to seek counseling, apologize to you, to your daughter and prove that he's really regretful about the whole thing.


Seriously...I don't know how you could still consider this person your "boyfriend"... your priorities are skewed if you value more your personal relationships rather than your child's welfare.

Answer 4

ok i comprehend that your scared yet did you ever think of approximately this being a good factor??! You daughter ought to the thank you to safeguard her self and get removed from any concern if one ever comes up like this. What if no person is there with sometime and she or he's attacked? If is extensive-unfold with precisely the thank you to kick a adult males butt and run away then that would desire to be good for her, and for the different woman too. She ought to learn blended martial paintings and that i opt to propose this for any women persons or guy who desires to learn the thank you to safeguard themselves.

Answer 5

there is NO forgiveness for rape, NONE. Plus if he did it once he WILL do it again. If the mother wants to put it all back together she can seek psychiatric care

Answer 6

Are you saying the original mom is taking the boyfriend back into the house?
That's just crazy. Go over there and beat her asss. I am a cop, you have my permission.


Don't really do that.

Answer 7

first of all was this molestation reported?

if not then report it!!!

then put this girl in a major support group and psychological theraphy.

after that go to family court and get this childs custody!!!

Answer 8

what? #1 you don't forgive him & #2 learn to spell & write

Answer 9

pray 4 him n 4give n 4get n let God do tha punishment

Answer 10

don't worry hunny, all that comes in time.
just be who you are and enjoy your aunt's company.
you'll be fine now

Answer 11

fight for her!!! keep her !!!! File for legal guardianship!!!!!
call CHILD PROTECTION AGENCY !!! if he's still living with her birth mother she MUST NOT GO BACK !!!!