I know it's a stereotype, but you would expect most men who are virgins to ejaculate fairly early on in sex for their first time, right?
Well, my significant other and I have had sex three times so far in total over the past few days, each session lasting about forty minutes, and he can't seem to ejaculate for some reason.
I know that he's not in very good shape ((He's actually pretty thin though)), and that he masturbates alot, but... I don't know if those are significant reasons or not. I'm assuming that its my appearance somehow, even though he has made no negative comments about the way I look to me.
I'm not terribly fat, 5'7" 139 lbs., but for some reason I can't help but think that his obsession with porn causes him to have an unrealistic view of women, maybe? Could this be the cause of our problem?
Any responses would be much appreciated. <3
2006-07-05 16:25:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
He is masturbating a lot, that does take some of the edge off. If he were to lay off that for awhile, say a day or two, that might help. He cannot build up the tension needed to climax.
You are not terribly fat. But he maybe does have unrealistic ideals. Have him drop the porno as a favor to you. See how that works out.
You might also try a different position where he gets to have more tension but less stress. Experiment. Have him try some positions he has seen on the porn that look good to him.
2006-07-05 16:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by NeoArt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a problem and should go see a doctor or if not hes not getting excited enough during intercourse make it interesting to him so he actually gets into or try giving him a bj if your comfortable doing that but just give it a try but if all fails he just may want to see a doctor just to be safe and dont worry it has nothing to do with your weight or height or anything
2006-07-05 16:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by countrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first guess is that he is gay and living in denial. Another guess would be that he is turned on by some kind of sex that you guys dont practice (finding out what kind of porn he watches would be helpful). I think when watch porn, their sexual sensitivity decreases and it takes them more to get "off". Id find out what kind of sex he fantasizes about, that might give you a clue about his expectations in bed. And of course, its not your fault, no matter what you look like, there will be men attracted to you. :)
2006-07-05 16:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mariya F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey is waking off too much that happen to me like if i du it alot like the 3rd time in a day its dry no *** or nothign soo u need to hav sex with him in the morning or befor he jacks off
2006-07-05 17:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by timothy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋