my friends never around even when i go to her house...she stays on the phone with her internet boyfriend who lives all the way in Maine and we live in california and her parents (mostly her mom) always critisises me and basically acts like she's my mom....first she says i can't hang out with my friends cousins (who live 2 feet away) then she questions me about who i hang out with and ask if i smoke pot and clams im high sometimes when im just hyper (i dont smoke pot by the way) Then when im just joking around, she tells me to grow up. They make me feel like im lower than dirt. I go over there all the time. I thnk that, she's my only friend cuz all my other friend suspect me to be over there so they dont ask me to do anything. I cant stop going over there though i have no idea why. Can anyone help me? shuld i still hang out with these people? If not, how do I occupy myself to stop going over there? thanks
2006-07-05 16:10:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I kind of no how you feel. first you should tell your friend, if she invites you over than she needs to spend some time with you. Also tell the mom that she hurts your feelings and make sure she no's that you dont smoke pot. Tell them how you feel and things dont get better than, no, dont hang out with her anymore. Instead of going over there, ask your other friends if they want to do something and if they do than you'll have a bunch of friends doing things instead of people putting you down all the time. good luck and i hope you find out what to do.
2006-07-05 16:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should stop going over there. It sounds like your so called friend isnt even interested in you really and her mother dosent like you. Find people that are worth your time. Tell 'all your other friends' that you are sorry you neglected them for this girl and that you would love to hang out with them again. Be good to yourself. And when no one is available to hang out with then keep busy doing something that you like or if you dont have a hobbie as such....get one! Good luck!! ;-)
2006-07-05 16:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would stop going over there. Sounds like they are only putting you down, and not being your friends. Start hanging out with other friends that you have. Call the other friends up and see if they're available to hang out, etc... If you have any siblings, do some stuff with them. Good luck.
2006-07-05 16:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like her mom is acting like this towards you because they are tired of you coming over all the time. Take the hint and stay away for awhile.
2006-07-05 16:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hang out with that makes u feel that way. join a club or a team or volunteer (etc.) to get your mind occupied.
2006-07-05 16:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going over there. obviously u r dealing with self esteem problems, instant message me at lilmshedd@yahoo.com ill be your new friend until u can find some more friends.
2006-07-05 16:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by lilmshedd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! you should not ever go there again!!! Go for a walk in the park or to the mall or even to a group therapy, have some respect for yourself babe
2006-07-05 16:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop goin' over there. her mom sounds like a total *****. who does she think she is telling u who to hang out with/ shes not ur mom. Tell her "thanks for the advice. but my mom say i can hang out with them."
2006-07-05 16:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet people,i know that you can find a person who can understand and you will trust,maybe he is just around just waiting you to talk with him.
2006-07-05 16:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by eloisa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u no that u shoodnt b hangin out w/ this grl or her family.
2006-07-05 16:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋