Me and my bf broke up last May of this year. And recently he calls me up and txting me saying that he still loves me and he still cares for me. I know that i still love him very much but still can't forget the pain that he caused me when he broke up with me saying he's getting along again with his ex (his long term girlfriend). Last night i can't believe what had happened...he is crying when he called me up and saying that he's getting married by next year... and now they are already engaged! He say those words while he is crying! He keeps on telling me that he is still very much in love with me but just can't hurt the other girl's feeling... He told me that he is confuse of his situation. I don't know why he still say that he loves me despite of the fact that he can't let go of somebody else. Please help =(
2006-07-05 16:02:34 · 13 answers · asked by HisAngel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously he cares for you and for some odd reason he plans on marrying this other woman. Which we can safely say probably won't last, due to his feelings for you. There's not much to do but wait, maybe he will come to his senses before the actual wedding :) If not, good luck to you. I hope you find your true love and someone that will stay with you!!!!
2006-07-05 16:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Illinoismom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy I loved once told me that I was "home" to him. That while we were broken up it was like when you are on vacation. Its fun and you have a great time, but you always want to go home. At the time I thought it was the sweetest greatest thing I ever heard. Now looking back on it, all he really said was that I was pretty much his back up F$$K and that when he got bored he'd be back. He ended up getting another girl pregnant and got engaged. The moral of the story is, if he loved you, crying or not, he would be with you.
2006-07-05 23:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by snshnbtrflis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky that despite the pain you felt when he broke up with you, the karma went so fast for ex-boyfriend. He is so confused & he can't manage to be in a love relationship. Don't accept him, he's just feeling the pain returned to him by fate - a karma. Just be good, one day you will find a man who is not confused & will love you well. Goodluck!
2006-07-05 23:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by crystals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya well the way i see it hes just tryin ta get some before hez hitched u gotta realize uz guyz can n will be dirty if da chick iz gullible datz most guyz for ya.......but if he really ment what he said he wouldnt have hurt ya in the first place then say he lovez u n getz engaged too many mixed signalz so i wouldnt trust it
2006-07-05 23:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by blazinup_atl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you realized it yet, but you answered your own question. it is natural to be sad and be brain ****** after such a special relationship goes sour - but if he was in love with you, he would be marrying you. NO MAN will marry someone if they have an inkling it may not be right... no way!! For every guy like this, there will be 5 you can date and never have issues with :) Good luck ;)
2006-07-05 23:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by shotzisamazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him know in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS that he has made his decision and that you wish him all the happiness in his new life.
Then you break it off. Do not respond to his e-mails or text messages. When he calls, unless it is something vital to say (like "I decided to break off with her and come back to you."), end the conversation.
This will force him to look within himself to make the best decision.
2006-07-05 23:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely was in love with you he wouldn't be engaged to someone else. Consider yourself lucky that he is your ex.
2006-07-05 23:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Move on and let him handle his own feelings. If he is a real man, he will be honest with himself and his fiance and not marry her.
2006-07-05 23:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to back off both relationships and get his mind straight. Call his girlfriend if you have to.
2006-07-05 23:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by wdg00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! He wouldn't be engaged right now if he was in love with you.
2006-07-05 23:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋