the reason i had my doubts is because he cheated on me several times but i know for a fact that he isn't cheating on me now if it was u would u end it keeeping in mind u have a child with this man
2006-07-05 16:02:02 · 17 answers · asked by danielle5213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My opinion is -
anyone can reform oneself.
It may be that he came across something that made him value the marriage more - maybe the story of another man who ruined his marriage this way. Or, maybe, he just looked at the children and realized suddenly what his behavior might lead to...
2006-07-05 16:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by dimashchepin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Once a cheater always a cheater. How many times does he have to cheat before you get the picture? As far as the child goes I hope this child has more self-esteem than you do because you seem to have none.
2006-07-05 16:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by jj01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your situation, yes. If he's cheated on you several times, obviously he's trying to get what he is not getting from you. Now I don't mean find out what that is and then do it, chances are it's too late. Why bring your self-esteem even lower. If he truly loves you, he should be communicating to you what his needs are. And since you have a child together, all the more reason to move on. Why put your child through this. You 2 deserve better.
Good luck
2006-07-05 16:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by lindakailex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he cheat the first time? There is always a reason...You need to find out why. No I don't believe once a cheat always a cheat... As long as you are taking care of business you don't have to worry about it...Cheats cheat for a reason!!!!
2006-07-05 18:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. the more you forgive him, the less he will respect you. your child may be better off without someone like him as a direct role model...but only you are experiencing your role in the relationship. follow your intuition. and put your child first. he/she will not benefit from a relationship that is unhealthy and unstable.
2006-07-05 16:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by luvbuggies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not end it if I knew for sure that he wasn't cheating....if you are happy with him and can honestly say that you trust him once again ....then I think that's great...keep what you have. I will say that for the most part though, a lot of guys AND gals...once they cheat...they usually do it again....but a person CAN learn from their mistakes and learn to start over.
I wish the best for you!
2006-07-05 16:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do belive once a cheater always a cheater and if u wait wen the child gets older it will hurt the child and u if he ever does it again
2006-07-05 16:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that people do change.... I've cheated on my husband(before he was my hubby) and he cheated on me also, now we don't cheat and are happy together. Takes time and sometimes people don't realize what they've wanted all along is right there. Give him a chance and good luck.
2006-07-05 16:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the exception of one person, everyone I know that has cheated on their spouse/girlfriend, has done it repeatedly. With the same spouse/gf, and with succesive ones.
So it isn't a 100% guarantee that he will cheat again...but I'd say it isn't too far below that.
2006-07-05 16:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! ALWAYS A CHEATER! So get bck to reality ,keep tht in mind!
2006-07-05 16:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋