I CALLED MY HUSBAND'S MOM AND TOLD HER THAT MY HUISBAND HAD BEEN DISRESPECTFUL AND SHE SAID THAT SHE WOULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT BECAUSE SHE HAS DAUGHTERS AS WELL AND WOULD NOT WANT THEM TO BE MISTREATED AND THAT HE SHOULD NOT BE TREATING ME THAT WAY ESPECIALLY IF SHE DID NOT RAISE HIM THAT WAY
2006-07-05 15:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GROW UP!!! Now you're just going to piss him off anymore. Like telling his mommy on him is going to make him stop what he's doing. If you're both adults then you should be talking to him and not his mother. If I was you, I'd just be prepared to get treated even worse. No MAN or WOMAN for that matter likes being treated like a child.
2006-07-05 16:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's obvious that your husband is close to his mother and probably would only listen to her....or else why would you feel the need to go to her for help.....you are reaching out for help here and seriously you should not be treated in a disrespectful manner. if your mother in law won't help you, then start looking at your options, perhaps talk to someone outside the family.
i hope he listens to his mum
2006-07-06 01:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is cool that you can go to your mother in law for this,.but honey limit the moms calls,cause you might feel sorry about it later... try to fix your relationship problems without the in laws.. it can get personal and at the end they always are going to stick together and that is not going to feel good..... but is defiantly cool you guys have a good enough relationship where she can see her son is out of line...but try not to over do it... believe me.. this advice might do you good later on in the years... keep the relationship with your man as private and as personal as you can..
2006-07-05 23:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I am an adult perfectly able to tell my husband when/if he is disrespectful to me. I don't need to drag his mother into my marriage. My mother did this to my grandma at my dad's funeral talking bad about dad and he wasn't even cold in the ground. I was mortified, and it broke my Grandma's heart.
2006-07-05 23:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agreed with Dixie Till I Die.
I hope everything went well afterwards.
2006-07-05 23:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could backfire on you, be careful. She could later be in denial about it and use that excuse that she did not raise him that way. And only because that's her son, child.
Good luck.
2006-07-05 23:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by lindakailex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep that between you and your husband. That will damage your relationship further.
2006-07-05 23:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by wdg00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to keep your problems out of your mom inlaws eyes, yes he was rude but it has nothing to do with her.it is going to cause problems in your marriage because it is his mom not yours.anyway deal with your own problems not tatel tale!!!!!
2006-07-05 23:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY that makes you look sooo weak.Your better than that stand up for yourself.
2006-07-05 23:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by pitgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her in a heart beat and he knows it!!!!
2006-07-05 22:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋