2006-07-05 15:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by amlev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You keep your house clean, keep working at least part time, talk to at least one person each day, and find a creative outlet for your pain.
2006-07-05 16:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really is a good question because in 36 hrs i'll be on the op table being cut open and i could very likly not make it and i wonder that and say she would probably like it. even thou i know no one will ever treat her the way i do no one will ever show her and do the things the way i do for her .so the best way to cope with that is 2 think of all the things u cherished about him whether good or bad.and evenually let go of him n keep him close 2 u and over time it wont hurt as much
2006-07-05 16:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him every night as if he was still there....because he is...in spirit that is. There is nothing wrong with this, talk about what you did that day and how you felt, etc.....I would think that it would be quite comforting. I also would get counseling if you haven't been already, go to the bookstore and read some self help books to get some extra input. You obviously are going through something really tough right now so if you can spend time with some friends who will comfort you and just "listen" to you.....that would be great.
I'll be thinking of you....Chin up!!!
2006-07-05 16:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I say this for all of us here when I say we are all sorry for your recent and tragic loss. No one will truely understand how it has affected you personally and no one will be able to fill the hole in your heart that this has left. It is ok to cry and it is ok to morn. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. When the time is right you will find peace within yourself to know that he knew how you felt about him, and that you and his family were the things he worrried about most when the time came for him to leave this earthly realm.
2006-07-05 16:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that happened to me....i was mad at him and the next day he was killed...i could not cope since i didn't tell him how much he loved me....and how much i loved me.........after his burial I laid on my bed when i got home......i fell as sleep...i can feel my body move be faced up...i starting starting feeling him kissing on my neck...it's not a lie this really happened to me...he came to give a kiss good bye...almost 20 years he's been dead and i still love...and i think about him
2006-07-05 16:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to others. Release what you think and feel.
Also, exercise daily, such as aerobics, so you release the feelings and tensions built up inside.
There are many people here at Yahoo Answers wating to listen.
Just talk!
2006-07-05 16:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋