My mate is been cheating on me for a long time now with the same woman but because I love him so much I still decided to stay in a relationship eventhough it hurt me so much deep inside and he knows how hard it is for me but still he doesn't stop cheating. What should I do? Let him go? Should I move on?
2006-07-05 14:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by asian_gal_from_socal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends. If the other woman has been in his life longer than you or is married to him - then let him go - he isn't cheating on you - he's cheating on her and if she still wants him and loves him that's her decision. If you have been in his life longer or are married to him - then hang on - and hold on to your marriage vows, love, and memories.
2006-07-05 15:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that u do the same to him. men have a tendency to not be able to handle the same punishment that they dish out so if i were u i would get all dressed up and go out looking your best, smelling good and looking even better then u ever did and tell him not to wait up cause u dont know when u will be home if u do come home tonight. then go out and have a wonderful time despite the fact that he treats u that way. dont get me wrong i am not suggesting that u cheat on him as well, but make him feel like u r and see what kind of attention he gives u then. good luck and i hope tht u find happiness in life (KC)
2006-07-08 00:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you love your bf so much. Can you accept that your bf is sharing with another woman? If you are that open minded, then you can keep on staying with the relationship. If you can't accept the "sharing" and can't accept his cheating, then you have no choice and find a better one. I am sure you can find a better one.
Good luck for you.
Joyce
2006-07-06 00:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by joyce_lovely_gir1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question...leave him. Unless you like being hurt, betrayed, and possibly putting your health and that of any children you may have at risk from AIDS. Have more respect for yourself....you don't deserve this....let him go.
2006-07-05 22:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mate is not your mate. he's the other woman's mate and your just the fool who wont get the message
2006-07-05 22:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a very sad story , and a very emotional i would leave if you stay there will be more heart aches
2006-07-05 22:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIS LOSER @SS.
HE'S NO GOOD, YOU DESERVE BETTER. HE DOESNT LOVE YOU, YOU NEED TO FACE THAT FACT. IF HE TRULY LOVED YOU HE WOULD NOT CHEAT , HE WOULD NOT HURT YOU. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, YOUR WASTING YOUR LIFE ON A NO GOOD PIECE OF SH!T.
2006-07-05 22:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go
2006-07-05 22:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** u deserve better
2006-07-05 22:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋