2006-07-05 13:43:37 · 30 answers · asked by ilovedemwhiteboys2006 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, go and take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, talk to your boyfriend first and make sure you have his support. Then the BOTH of you should go and talk to your mother. Knowing that her teenage daughter is pregnant is bad enough, but at least she will know that you have your boyfriend's support and if she tries to get physical with you, he'll be there to protect you. ;-)
Good luck and regardless, always know that God does things for a reason. It might be difficult at the beginning, but when you look in your child's face, the darkness turns into light.
2006-07-05 13:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by big_red_34d 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Well I don't know you or your Mom and i understand that this can be a really scary thing. Maybe before you tell her find out if you are pregnant you can do the test yourself but if you are pregnant for sure then you have to tell her. Maybe she'll accept it on all will be good or if she doesn't at least you will have been honest right from the start. Just remember that if you are pregnant don't let anyone convince you what to do you have to make up your own mind or you might always regret doing something else because your mom or bf told you to it's your body. Good luck,
2006-07-05 13:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rachelle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her where you can talk to her privately. Be prepared for her being upset, disappointed, angry... there could be a variety of reactions and you know here more than us. However, you don't want to talk to her someplace where everyone around you will be getting in your business and she might not feel free to discuss things because of other's reactions. Be honest and don't skip taking blame. You made an adult's choice to have sex, now you have to take the responsibility. Ask for her help to sort out everything and let her know you need her.
Tell her as soon as possible. Keep in mind that there will could be some legal problems because he's an adult and you are not legally. However, different laws apply in different areas.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 13:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by curiouschick18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a home pregnancy test to make sure that you are pregnant. Pregnancy test can be found in many stores like :Walmart, or Walgreen's, etc. If it comes back positive just tell your mom exactly the way you feel it, tell her that you didn't plan it, that you are scared, that you don't know what to do, and that you NEED her help. Don't expect her to be very happy, but I hope she will understand and together , when she will "cool off" you will be able to menage the situation. I wish you the best and good luck - Robin
2006-07-05 13:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by adam7953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in a situation where you say like mom i have this friend named so and so she is 16 and her bf is 18 the problem is she might be pregnant how should she tell her mom?
( Don't say your name in the situation say one of ur friiends.)
-OR-
tell her that you made a terrible terrible mistake.
2006-07-05 13:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by keke s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as possible. Telling my mother that I was pregnant at 17 was literally the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Just get it over with. Do it quick, like a Band-aid. She will probably cry. She may yell. But she may be happy she's getting a grandchild. I wish you the best.
2006-07-05 13:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and tell her its alot better than lieing or not telling here in the usa 16 is legal age so and u being 1 and him being 18 is no big deal not like he or u could get into trouble
2006-07-05 13:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just like to say that i was 19 but i was out of school and had my own house and when i got pregnant i don't know what to do and how to let my dad and mom know. but i called my mom and told her and she did not think that i was and that i was jOKing with her so i think that was ok,but my dad was the one that would kill me lol but all he said was how and why that was funny. he just did not talk to me that much then he was happy so good luck and e-mail me and let me know and if you just need to talk . jay_ash_2003@yahoo.com Ashley
2006-07-05 14:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by jay_ash_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just it her down and get it over with the fastest way possible. just be like.. mom I have made a big mistake, and I need your help. I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do.
2006-07-05 13:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carefully
Or try going to her in distress (crying and such) and tell her you have a problem. Really seem upset about it if you are not. That way she may be more sympathetic than angry. She will be disappointed no matter what.
2006-07-05 13:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋