my bf always talks abt my figure?

Question

im in great shape and i love my figure my bf says he loves my body but he says i should have big boobs whats up with this it make s me feel ensecure with my body and makes me want to get surgery just for him to stop making me feel bad abt myself can you tell me what to say to him

Answer 1

tell him to love you and not your body
find someone who looks at the inside because otherwise you wont care about your inside either and youll be busy working on your outer apperace
dont let him do that to you
do it to him and see how he feels
tell him "it" is a little too small and he should consider a pumpor something
lol

Answer 2

I know you have a great relationship with this guy other than this body issue. Let me tell you something before everything goes down the drain - never be with a guy who makes you insecure. Your partner should make you feel wonderful even when you are the most overwieght girl in the room.Believe me - there are guys like that out there.
When your self esteem is low , everything starts to suck.Get out while you still think nicely about yourself.

Answer 3

Well, RU sure you are with the right guy there, hon? It'd piss me off if my (well, I'm married.. he'd better keep HIS goddamned trap shut.. lol) husband said something like this. man, with dudes, I find that when they find one thing to ***** about, you go out of your way to 'fix things' and I'll be damned if they don't find something else to gripe about! (Am i right? Give it some thought.. is he a bitcher? my husband is one.. I know what I am talking about here.) You ever been to see someone who has had surgery (for anything?) I saw the husband following surgery and it sucked totally! He was knocked out, it 'hurt like hell' for weeks (it was colon cancer surgery) and well.. it sucks! Don't let anyone (like a physician trying to make money off all the poor people running around thinking they've 'got to look better' for some s.o.b.) let you think surgery's a piece of cake, either. (I sound mad at you.. I'm not.) I've got extremely small boobs because I'm a marathon runner, in tip top shape .. I've got more muscles (which give my breasts a very attractive 'perk'.. very erotic) in my chest than a lotta losers/men living round me. I'm highly admired (and ****, this sounds like braggin.. and I'm only illustrating a point..) I don't have 'big boobs' and I'm considered sexy, hon.. (Exercise, eat well and screw it.. you can do better than this guy, sweetie.) later- g'luck Melancholia

Answer 4

Your boyfriend sounds very superficial. If he is dating you as you currently are, then you are probably beautiful as already. Does that make sense? He is probably afraid of losing you so he feels he has to put you down so you won't be secure with yourself. He probably is insecure about himself so he feels you have to be his view of perfection.

Do not get surgery because it is not what you want or what you need. Someone who puts you down is not being loving or a good boyfriend. If this relationship goes further, then you will be unhappy as a wife. What happens if you get boobs and then suddenly it's your height that is not right. You should be taller or shorter.

Just be strong and say that he is hurting you, and if he doesn't listen, it's time to take care of yourself and leave him.

Answer 5

Big boobs are worthless. Big fake boobs are even more worthless. I never understood the obsession. Big ones can be great and small ones can be great. I like butt, legs, stomach, hips way more. If your self esteem ever gets low enough that you consider getting a boob job, then please watch a video of that disgusting, violent surgery to see what will actually be done to your body.

Answer 6

Your boyfriend sounds like a jerk.

Obviously, if he loved your body, he'd love your breast size too.

He has no respect for your feelings. I'd tell him that it hurts your feelings when he says that, but under no circumstances should you get surgery to please someone else.

If he makes you feel this bad, and you tell him that it makes you feel bad and he STILL makes those comments, dump him. He's a jerk.

Answer 7

That's very self-centered of him to want you to change something just to suit his taste. Surgery for breast enlargement has some dangers, so don't do it just for him. Who knows if he will even be around next year.
I'd be concerned about staying in a relationship with someone who undermines your feelings of well-being.

Answer 8

First of all darling...if you're happy with your body..then you keep it the way it is and if he has a problem with it then he has a problem with himself and you need to kick his butt to the curb...a man should be happy with everything that comes with you or nothing at all...and don't do anything you don't want to do just to make him happy...do what you want to make you happy because at the end of the day...he's just your boyfriend not husband and you have to wake up everyday in the skin you're in....

Answer 9

I happen to be a boob man, but tell him to go screw himself and be happy that you are with him and not with someone else that does like your breast size. The only thing that matters is that you like your boobs and who cares what he thinks. There is more to a girl besides her breast size or physical features.

Answer 10

Tell him you love his body too...except his penis is too short, he should get an enlargment.

Then dump him and find someone who will think you are perfect exactly the way you are.

Good luck