what should i do i'm just 16
2006-07-05 13:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but they just want to beat me up
2006-07-05 13:42:09 · update #1
Come to me baby...
2006-07-06 07:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 17⤋
First of all, if your family really has love in their hearts, they should let you explore for yourself if that is where you will end up. I have seen a lot ot teens experiment with their sexuality. Some think that are and some think that aren't.
But, whatever the choice you make in the long run, unconditional love is and should be the main factor here. I tell my husband all the time if one of our kids ended up being gay, the only thing that I can say is I hope and pray that the person they chose will be true and love them from the heart. No one knows exactly where the destination of love will really end, especially when you are still in the exploring stage. And just per chance you are down the road. Maybe your family will stop and see that you deserve to be happy with whomever you fall in love with. My manager at work is Gay, and I think that he is a little afraid of showing people that side of him. I told him to be who he is going to be, and be good at it, because I am not here to judge him because it's between him and GOD anyway. So, live and let live is how I see it. GoD's Speed to you and your family.
2006-07-05 20:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, that's so sad. Just think in two years you'll be free from them. If it's really that bad you could get emancipated from your parents to show them how serious you are and that it really hurts you. You could just sit down and talk to them, pick the one that you think you can get through to the best/first and talk to them, get them on your side, and then slowly one by one they will all come around to the idea. If you just told them or they just recently found out, give them a little while to get used to the idea.
As for the asshole above that said you're going to hell... ignore them and all other people that still have a stick up their *** and are stuck on their conservative catholic whatever the hell it is and just live life the way you want. If you can't get your family to come around, screw them, get emancipated or move out the second you turn 18, get a job, save up the money and get the hell out of there.
2006-07-05 20:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all your not going to hell like the first person said because there is nothing wrong with being gay. One of my best friends is gay and his family didn't want anything to do with him either until he talked to them about the way he feels and how he feels about the way they are treating him. So my advice to you is to talk to your family and let them know how you feel about the way they are treating you and how they should be happy that you are happy.
good luck and if you need any more help just e-mail me .. hershey_kiss_3000@yahoo.com
2006-07-05 20:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by hershey_kiss_3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal to be gay ?? well I would reply is it normal to breathe ?? Its not a choice you make but something that is made for you. I think you should report you family for abuse if they are beatin you, and get out of there. Hun you need to stand up for yourself there is nothin wrong with you, but somethin terribly wrong with you family.
If you was my brother I would be very proud of you for being yourself !
2006-07-06 18:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,they have 2 hate you cuz ur gay!!if you want everthing to be ok and great just become normal person...dont be gay u know...!!
2006-07-05 20:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think most of these people are out of line. your fine the way you are. personally im not gay, but if i were your parents i would accept you the way you are. they probably think your young and will change, like its not permanent...a "phase". it might be. but if its not then stick to it and they will love you no matter what. good luck!!
2006-07-05 20:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them know that there is nothing that can be done
this is what defines you and there is nothing you can do to change it. if you are going to deny your own son, that tells a lot about yourself
2006-07-05 20:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by myke_n_ykes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have a right 2 bc u are going to hell and they want nothing to do wit u
2006-07-05 20:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a real question
2006-07-06 12:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not going to hell your gay and thats you.
2006-07-05 21:20:00 · answer #11 · answered by hotti_4x4_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋