i am 15 and pregnet and my b/f is older what do you thing i should do ??/?

Question

i am 15 yrs old and i have an older boyfriend and idont want to get him in trouble and i dont want to get him in trouble and i dont want an obbortion i love him and he loves me and we want a baby but i dont want to lose either of them what do you think i should do i am really confused

Answer 1

Have the baby and keep it.

A girl that I talk to is only 15 and has a 1 month old baby and she loves it! it would be a drastic life style change as in no partying and stuff but i would keep it and go to baby classes to educate you on how to care for your baby..

Young mums are good mums too!

Answer 2

id say keep the baby if u want to.. noone can make u give up the baby and if he loves the baby and u love the baby and u parents give consent for u to see this guy than there is nothing that can be done cause in most states 16 is legal age and u are alomost 16 yes? but anyways i know how u feel i was pregnant back when i was ur age and i was worried about everything cause my bf was older than me to and i didnt want to get him into trouble or anything but i ended up having a miscarrage. so dont stress ur self about this all cause u can harm the baby and i know u wouldent want to do that. and now i and 21 yrs old and i have 2 baby boys so.. im not all that much older than u so if ya wanna talk drop me a line but hey if u want to talk more or have any more questions feel free to email me at

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Answer 3

I think you should have thought about this before you had sex at such a young age. What you need to do is not worry about getting him in trouble, that baby is his responsibility and not making him take part in that responsibility now will mean trouble down the road. As a mom of two children, I know that babies are expensive! Formula costs money, if you are unable to, or decide not to, breastfeed, and so are diapers. They need clothes, medicine, trips to the doctor, etc. It is on you and your boyfriend, NOT YOUR PARENTS (although I am sure they probably want to help, because you will probably need it because you are not going to find a job easily that will cover those expenses) to take care of your baby. If he says he is going to leave you because you want him to take care of his child, he's an asshole anyways and you don't want to be with him. If that's the case, take it to the legal system and MAKE him a part of that child's life, at least financially. Abortion should NOT be an option, just because you don't feel like dealing with a baby. That baby, even at a week in utero, is a human life, and unless you were raped or otherwise unwillingly impregnated, you have no reason to murder YOUR CHILD. The same with adoption. Adoption is not an option for those that just don't feel like dealing with a kid. A child is not a material possession, to be given away when it is not convenient. You made the decision to make the baby (by deciding to have sex) now take care of your responsibility.

Answer 4

did you plan on getting pregnant? you are only 15 and already having a baby...how much older is your boyfriend? I think you are too young to deal with something so big. Even if you decided to give it up for adoption your parents and everyone will still find out what happened because you have to go through that 9 months and everything. The only thing i can say is just talk it over w/ everyone and hope for the best. Im pregnant right now, and both you and your boyfriend are going to go through alot of changes. Its going to be hard, i just hope that everything works out for you.

Answer 5

Well you don’t want to have an abortion, so put the baby up for adoption and tell your family you made a mistake but would like to fix it. Something like this can ruin the rest of your life. At 15 these days love doesn’t exist, no matter how much you might think it does. You have a long life to live, don’t lose your childhood because of a mistake. You will regret it in the future.

Answer 6

You have found yourself in a rather awkward situation. If you feel you can, you should look after the baby, but in saying that it's best to look at your situation and see if you can look after the baby money wise. It does cost alot.
Sure your parents will get upset and may even get angry with you, How would you like to find in 15 years time that your child was pregnant. BUt hun, the best thing would be to tell your parents, they can help you.
And as to the boy, if he loves you he will stick around to help you. No matter what happens at least you have that love there.

Answer 7

At 15 and single, you are too young for a child and the baby deserves the most secure future it can have. It is a noble and wise decision to put him (or her up for adoption.

No matter what anyone says, girls generally feel like sluts for sleeping with guys who are not committed for the future.
Please stop having sex untill you are much older...then you may understand better how to pick a good hearted man who will be faithful to only you, treat you like gold and love you enough to want to be your partner for life.

Young lady, you are worth having a secure, loving and fantastic future with a fantastic man!

Answer 8

If he loves you so much why couldn't he wait to have sex with you. I bet if you told him "no" he'd disappear like the morning fog. Is this what love is supposed to be? Do you really want someone who just wants to use you and, apparently, isn't the least concerned about protecting you? (Otherwise, why are you pregnant?)
You don't owe these creeps anything! Just because they say they "love you" doesn't mean they actually do. Every time one of these jerks tells you that why don't you just substitute the words "want to screw" for the word "love." You'd then get a picture of what they are really thinking.
Oh, and by the way, if you are deluding yourself into thinking your boyfriend is different, ask yourself the question: "If he loves me so much why am I pregnant?" Well, if he does, why are you?

Answer 9

young lady just listening to how you are talking you are WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING A BABY!!!! YOUR ONLY 15 you need to talk to your parents and leave him out the story so he doesnt get in trouble... how old is he is the question.... im not saying to have an abortion or not but i am saying think about it its your choice i dont think u even know the half of having a child and only at 15. gurl hopefully you have options.

good luck

Answer 10

you have to be honest and upfront. no good comes from lying. The best interest in the child is to give it up for adoption. If u really love your bf and yourself, next time practice safer sex or wait until you can support yourself before taking a chance on bringing an innocent baby into the world. I wish you luck and hope that you make the best decisions for yourself and the baby.