well for the past 3 days when i was with my boyfriend i couldnt get intimate with him i dont know why in the beginnin it was fine but last night i couldnt even kiss i felt weird then i tried to force it still didnt work even think of other guys still nothing....lately i just havent found anyone to be attractive. whats wrong with me????? lol
2006-07-05 13:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Gabriel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
also i dont take any meds my diet and excercise is the same
2006-07-05 13:13:10 · update #1
another thing is me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month so its still fresh.
2006-07-05 13:24:52 · update #2
Are you under a lot of stress? At work, school, family? That can affect your sex life. My advice is to just relax. Give it a few days. It could be happening for a number of reasons. I'm sure with time it will pass and you'll be back to your old self.
2006-07-05 18:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
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2016-11-01 06:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably stressed. However, if the problem keeps persisting maybe you're just not into your boyfriend anymore. Maybe subconsiously you feel that this person just isn't the right person.
2006-07-05 13:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by courtney m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard situation to understand. Maybe it is a deep seated mental abnormally. Could be that you need to seek psychiatric help.
2006-07-05 13:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the summer blues, and boys can get ugly in the summer also. They get better closer to Autumn. Good luck!
2006-07-05 13:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to rekindle something with your boyfriend. Sometimes it wears off and you just need something to remind you again of why you fell for him.
2006-07-05 13:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Wise Hermit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on any meds? I think they can affect that. Also, I guess maybe stress?
2006-07-05 13:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by Paige 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone goes through that phase. I suppose you can call it being "asexual" for a while.
2006-07-05 16:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by KAiT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋