Alas my partner of 16 years has become very lazy in the intimacy department :( in that las 6 months we've had sex on two occassions and both times it was wam bang thankyou mam kind of thing! I'm a loving and physial person and I have talk about it but he just shruggs it off which as you can well imagine is very frustrating! We hardly ever sit together and snuggle up watching the box or listening to music etc. al he seems to want to do is go to work come home and straight on to his computer and that's where he says for evening (every eve) till at least 1 in the morning! help?
2006-07-05 12:59:01 · 1 answers · asked by maidenrocks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems like he has a problem. I think if you try to talk about it and he refuses, cheating is not going to help anything..only make things work. Maybe you should seperate or consider breaking it off. He is not how he used to be it sounds and also does not seem to care to try. You don't deserve to hold yourself back in a dead relationship cause if it goes on too long, you are going to end up like my parents, miserable old and stuck. YOu deserve better.
2006-07-05 13:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by antisocialsweetheart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋