What would you do?

Question

Okay. My ex wants me back. And I didn't see why now so I took him back kinda. And I have this feeling that I'm going to do him. and I don't know why. And at the same time that I'm going to have a baby by him if I do. I keep on having dreams and all I see is a baby and/or a bed. What would you do? Am I crazy? (I want a kid but I want to finsh school and college)

I can't get birth control. I have no way to get it and if i do do him it will probably be unexspected. and i kinda want to do him. hes not asking me too at all. and i know for a fact he doesnt have any std's.

Answer 1

If you have a feeling you are going to "Do" him, you need to slap a condom on him or get birth control because you don't KNOW alot of stuff. So don't create more problems for yourself.

Finish school and college. Those are the best options for you now.

Answer 2

You are at the crossroads of your life. Each route is tempting and you are at liberty to take any of them. As they say when in doubt count. If I were you I would have devoted some time to choose the route. If I forbear a little I could complete my education and may be I can secure a reasonably good job and ensure financial security. On the other way if I enter family life I will be more a housewife Though this is not a bad option it is hemmed from almost all sides. I would have chosen the first option though I would not have deprived myself of the companionship of my beau. With so much help available for avoiding pregnancy I would have been able simultaneously to enjoy his company. I for one really would have had no problem You also should not have.

Answer 3

To see a baby in your dream, signifies innocence, warmth and new beginnings. Babies may symbolize something in your own inner nature which is pure, vulnerable, and/or uncorrupted. Babies may represent an aspect of yourself that is vulnerable and helpless.
Skip the sex and finish the education. The fact that you say you may "do" him makes it sound not quite heartfelt. If you do have sex, you need to decide if it is going to be worth it to take the chance of having a baby with someone who has proved in the past to be worthy of breaking up with. Will this guy support you in every way if you get pregnant. If you get pregnant will that be the end of your schooling? Promises can be made in the heat of passion that are quickly broken later. You should look for the phone number to the nearest Planned Parenthood and they can help advise you about obtaining birth control.

Answer 4

Well, Suicide, this is what I would do. I would dump the ex boyfriend. He is your ex for a reason. And as for a baby?
You see, you can't depends on pills, the patch can give you blood clots, so, I would go to my doctor's and get the shot. that should last once every three months (works for me). And, make sure you get some condoms to prevent from other diseases.
Now, this is info for you for whomever you plan to sleep with. but, not your ex and wait til after high school.
Additional Info: Yes, you can get birth control. It is called a FREE CLINIC. Every major city and towns has them. I suggest you find one nearest you by looking in the phonebook, calling info or looking up over the Internet. Even prostitutes and the poor can get things from the FREE CLINIC. So, that "I can't get on birth control" is no excuse.

Answer 5

Birth control, especially if you want to finish school and college. It's going to be a lot harder with a kid. Specially the school part. And what do you mean by kinda? If you don't want him just kick out of your life. If you can't birth control, the answer is simple Don't have sex .

Answer 6

Listen georgeous, don't get pressured into something you don't want. If you want a kid after you have finished skool and college then tell him, don't let him push you into this. He has to understand that you have a life too and he is only a part of that, not in control. I'm talking from experience if he controls you, he will get you pregnant and there goes your life. So get on the pill and tell him to put a condom on or get lost.

Answer 7

Why complicate a complicated life with a new life?

You WILL be miserable and the kid will be miserable and the ex to be will be miserable.

If that is you intention - go for it. If you want something different make some WORKING choices for a change. And a baby is not a good one in your situation - get a puppy instead.

Answer 8

Grow up and keep your birth control. Having sex places more thing at risk than a possible child. He may have had some bad contacts while away and end up giving you a std or aids.

Answer 9

Straighten up, use birth control, finish your studies, and if you still want a baby by then, you can support it and you are really sure you want it, have the baby.
But not until you feel ready to support it and are in a stable relationship for him to grow up.

Parenting is not a right. It's a responsability.

Answer 10

keep condoms in your purse at all times, and your purse with you at all times too. If you are afraid of your mom or dad checking your purse, keep a condom in your bra. It will give your ex a clear signal about what you expect as far as safe sex goes, and your folks won't check there, trust me!It is not unexpected if you know you might, you expect it, you just don't know if he does, so be prepared! Accidental babies are hard on relationships, especially ones that are just getting right again! don't chance it. It is not fair to him, or you, and most especially not fair to the baby!