how do you deal with divorce?

Answer 1

Many communities/churchs have divorce support groups where you can comiserate with fellow divorcees.

Answer 2

Everyone deals with Divorce differently. The most comon ways are usually the worst ways.

Drinking is common but not at all recomended.

Sleeping around is common as well yet also not recomended.

Give yourself time to deal with it. Take up a hoby which involves your creativity. (paint, draw, whittle, write poetry, or music) This will stimulate your mind in a positive manner and allow you to vent out your negative ones without hurting yourself or others.

If you feel you are out of controll it won't hurt to speak to someone, A close friend, councelor, or parent.

Get some exercize, a divorce isn't the end of your social life, so prepare your self for when you will be ready to start dating again. Work on those parts of you that you let go after becoming comfortable in the former relationship. Tone up a little.

Get some fresh air, and some companionship (A dog would supply both)

Have fun, and don't let depression get a hold of you, you are not damaged goods, you are not broken, you are not unloveable. You WILL meet someone new, even it it takea a little while.

These suggestions will allow you to deal with Divorce in a healthy manner. and help you remain positive, outgoing, and speed up recovery. They will help you keep from getting depressed and give you what you need to move on with your life.

I hope they are enough, and I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Counted down the days until it went to court and the judge signed the divorced decree. The marriage was over long before the divorce decree was handed to me. Afterwards, I never knew life could be so good! It's my life and I am in charge of it and was not afraid to rebuild it and live it the way I want. Free of turmoil, confusion, mind games and all his other crap. Have total peace of mind and that's something all the money in the world cannot buy.

Answer 4

you have to understand that life goes on. Things happen for a reason and if two people marry then split up, that just means you havent really met the "one" yet. Divorce may be heartbreaking and painful but its also a chance at a new beginning.

Answer 5

there is no easy way to deal w/it, u just sit back relax and don't get into another relationship, that will be truelly rebound city and that will make u bitter and hurt possibly a good man. there is no time limit for u to heal from the pain but u will know when u r ready to date or find a friend. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Think about the positive aspects of it to your advantage. Crying is good sometimes to let the bad feelings out. Try to keep your self busy, and exercise will do the trick for ya. I know it's not fun, but you have to take it a day at a time and learn to cope. Eliminate negative thoughts as they will make you more furious.

Answer 7

One moment at a time. Try to relish your "freedom" and keeping your own time table. It's all too common to rush to want to be in another relationship. But remember the reasons you got divorced.

Answer 8

I didn't deal with mine well. Lots of drinking and "inappropriate" new friends of the opposite sex....

Don't spend lots of money on junk, play fair, and figure out what you're really hurting from.

Answer 9

realistically, like a war, make decisions and plans and strategies and constantly rearange with a fluid situation.

everyday find something to do to relax and release the stress

also helps if you find someone to lean on from time to time

Answer 10

There is a silver lining behind the dark clouds.Have fortitude.