I think I am in love my my fiance's mother. She also told me that she loved me to. Please help me I do not know what to do.
2006-07-05 12:21:28 · 29 answers · asked by Just Curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your on drugs aren't you!! YOU asked your WIFE to marry you??? isn't it a tad late!! then you boink your mother in law!! how about going back on that medication!
2006-07-05 12:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to think very long and hard about the family that you are marrying into. It sounds like there might be some moral and self control issue that need to be addressed on both sides.
You need to re-evaluate your love and devotion to your fiance, because she deserves better than to spend years of her life devoted to a man that is carrying this kind of deception.
Trust is what makes the foundation to a successful marriage. If you know that she cant trust you with her heart, dont be selfish, tell her the truth so that she knows exactly what she is dealing with.
And most importantly find a way to pray and seek God for the best way to handle this whole matter.
2006-07-05 12:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of your future mother-in-law's house and do not have sex with her anymore. Break the engagement you have with your fiance because family life with her will not be happy, since you are already involved in sexual relations with her mother! It appears that this relationship is off to a terrible start and staying in it with either lady is only going to make bad matters worse. Get to know the difference between love and lust. Right now, you just need to get control of your hormones.
2006-07-05 12:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your fiance the wedding is off. Don't cause her anymore pain than you already have. And......... your not in love with your fiance's mother, this is lust, nothing more. But in your lust, you have destroyed your chance for a good marriage with your fiance. Hope you had fun, because now you have to live with all the pain you have caused.
2006-07-05 15:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O M G, you are in love? Does not sound like love came into either relationship here- you JUST proposed to a young lady and then had sex with her Mother? Neither of you know what love is. She betrayed her daughter and so did you. Good luck, what goes around, comes back thrice.
2006-07-05 12:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by onesmaartlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure all financial arrangements are in order, tell your fiance what happened, tell her you can't change it but recognize how incredibly horrible the situation is, and that you're calling the whole thing off rather than continue onwards. Then leave, never come back, and let her deal with her mother herself.
2006-07-05 12:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but why would you allow that in the first place dude. really....if you really loved your real girl. you really got to ask yourself why do you allow that entanglement to happen. try to break that off. wtf now you're probably gonna have to always deal with that if you marry your girl. it's your burden, buddy
c'mon this makes me laugh, dude. I have done things, but THIS? I think you ruined your relationship completely.....at least now you won't have to get a divorce.
and oh yeah, why are you confused whether or not you love the mother? you should know, and there's like no reason to love her. I personally would like to know how the you + the mother thing went down.
2006-07-05 12:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by sovereign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my fiance and you had sex with my mother there would be no where for you to hide. I would track you down like the dog you are and you would die a VERY slow and painful death.
2006-07-05 12:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both you are a messed up person!! you certainly have no business marrying this girl or even claiming you are going to so do her a favor and end it NOW it can never work out anyway at this point, its too late and you screwed it up too bad and you certainly cant keep seeing the mother. i'd leave town if i were you.
2006-07-05 12:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U definately break off the engagement before you ruin that poor girls life by letting her marry such a loser. Do u realize what u probably have just done , u've probably just ruined a family.. congrats u get my weekly ****** award.
2006-07-05 13:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asked your WIFE to marry you? If she is a wife, she ALREADY IS MARRIED to you.
I think you need to run far from this family. You will cause more heartache, headache and competition that will bring shipwreck.
2006-07-05 13:02:06 · answer #11 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋