is this true about men?

Question

i have heard it from a lot of people that men are usually unfaithful after marriage their attraction for their wifes lasts for a very little time. after sometime they start gettin attracted towards others in a situation if their wife is standing nude in front of them that time also they prefer looking at another girl passing thro'

Answer 1

no not all of them are like that. just take care of what they want when u live with someone for some time u get to know everything abt that person.so try to find out whatever ur husband likes and what sort of a wife he wants u to be. live life happily with him

Answer 2

No, this is not true if you pick a Godly, moral man. I know for a fact two of uncles would run from the room if there was a naked lady in it. They are ALL about my aunts even after 27 and 25 years of marriage. My other uncle may glance before he ran, but he'd still run away (they've been married 29 years). Yes, I have met men who have cheated on their wives and I have met wives who have cheated on their husbands. If a man is into pornography before marriage or going to strip clubs, etc., then he is NOT a good candidate for keeping it in his pants (nor is the woman a good candidate for keeping her pants up). Being a multi-partner male or female and acting as if sex is some type of amusement park ride will greatly improve the chances of being a wandering mate. For the long haul, avoid those types like the plague. (And NEVER use sex as a weapon or as leverage against your husband or wife! Always try to have a healthy sex life - and it can be racey and interesting without other people or pornograph.)

Answer 3

Somethimes this is true of BOTH men and women. For some strange reason the chase is always more exciting than reality. What is unknown seems to beckon to some people more than others. Remember the old saying about grass always being greener on the other side of the fence. Make your grass so green that he forgets there is even a fence to look over.

Answer 4

Men cannot and should not be pigeon holed! They are all unique and different! Faithfulness or the lack of it is not based on sex, it is based on maturity and communication! Women and men are equal for better or worse, anyone can be an unfaithful person, in mind and heart. Sex is not the only way to be unfaithful. Your man might like a video game more than intimacy with you too!
I do not believe in monogamy!

Answer 5

No, that is said by bitter women about their cheating men. Not all men are dogs. There are men out there that are wonderful, loving and completely faithful. The one thing women are good at is sensing when their man is being unfaithful. I've been with a cheat but have lasted with the love of my life.

Answer 6

It is not true. I have eyes and I like to look when I see an interesting looking girl/woman. Could be sexual appeal or cleverly dressed or otherwise provocative in some other ways. Being unfaithful is a form of rebellion or possibly insincerity or maybe even revenge. It has nothing to do with being a man or woman. Both sexes have been known to go astray.

Answer 7

I think all men get bored at one time or another same with women I say spice up your love life do something different. We all look there are lots of beautiful people out in this world but that does not mean to touch. Go to an adult store and have fun!!!!! I think men still like looking at their wife naked no matter how long you have been married. I have been with my husband for 8 years and he still looks when I walk around naked and he still gets turned on.

Answer 8

Not JUST men. Some people do cheat. So? IF you two love each other, neither will cheat. If they cheat, END the relationship. I was married for 18 years, and NEVER cheated. I certainly did look, but never touched. And, my wife seemed even more attractive to me at the end of my marriage, than when we married. Sadly, it didn't matter. My marriage was destroyed by cheating.

Answer 9

no its not always true, thats why it is so important to make sure the relationship is solid beyond the infatuation stage before getting married. those men were dogs before the wedding and that part of their character didnt change and won't change. lots of times you'll hear women in that situation saying that he did it before the wedding but they went ahead and married them anyway, there were signs 90% of the time but they were swept under the rug. people delude themselves in to thinking that marriage will 'fix' problems that already exist in a relationship, it doesn't fix anything, it amplifies any problems that were already there. so basically if people didn't fool themselves about who they are really dealing with for the sake of a wedding and a ring it wouldn't happen nearly as often. yes everyone is going to look, men and women but its what they do about it that counts.

Answer 10

The reason that men cheat is the male ego. The male ego is the root of all evil. The male feeling of desire and lust and infatuation and desire to conquer the woman and the newness feels exactly like love only it is infinitely stronger. This is why prior to the conquest men whisper such endless baloney into our ears. “Oh my God you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my entire life. I could care less about sex. I love you for your personality.” The micro second that the man ejaculates inside of you without a condom because his passion was so overwhelming and his promises that he was in perfect health were so convincing it’s all down hill even for the Holy Wood starlets. This is because the woman will never again be able to give the man the one thing he wants most in life – the conquest of her - the need in the male mind to say to himself and to his locker room buddies, “Yes, I nailed her!” Nailed?
Every single woman that I know today is engaged in internet dating. If a woman has the slightest flaw, like no jaw for example, or God forbid a crooked nose, men have an endless supply of internet sites and internet women to replace her. The fantasy is better than the reality but the reality is worse than the phobia.
Now let us examine the spiritual reasons that men cheat. According to the famed psychiatrist M. Scott Peck M.D. in his books “People of the Lie” and “Glimpses of the Devil”, in addition to the holy white angel spirit in every person all of our bodies are also containers for evil spirits that resemble the alien monster in the movie Independence Day. Inwardly we are all monsters who sacrificed our first born children alive by fire as the drummers beat their drums loudly to drown out the terrified screams of our burning babies which we sacrificed to the God Baal, Beelzebub, Satan on fire altars in Gehenna just south of Jerusalem for thousands of years up until 2,000 years ago on a planet 5 billion years old. Our ancestors were murderous freaks and we are their clones and this is the reason men cheat.
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Answer 11

Well I think that is a generalization- But to a certain extent, men are animals and they are visual creatures- therefore they tend to think with their "little head" and hence make a lot of mistakes that way.
Not all of them but most are like that- They will look at girls till the day they die, not necessarily cheat- my bf tells me it is natural for guys to do so, thats why I will never trust him. I have known other guys who were discreet about and who would never cheat .
SO to sum it up, yes they will look always, but not necessarily cheat. Same goes for women too, dont forget that.