I am 15 and my bf and i did it in a hot tub at a resort. he didnt *** inside me, but i was in the water when he did. this was yesterday, and today i have intense stomach pain. not to mention im really scared about it. is it possible that i am pregnant?
2006-07-05 11:43:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm not gonna judge you or anything young one but why are you having sex in the first place? If you're scared of getting pregnant then don't have sex. It's not the end of the world if you don't have sex.
To answer your question there maybe a chance that you may be pregnant. Any time you have sex either with a condom and birth control there is a possibility that you may get pregnant.
When a boy/man gets arroused there's a substance that comes out of his penis.
THIS SUBSTANCE DOES CONTAIN SPERM AND IF THE SPERM GETS INSIDE YOU AND INTO YOUR UTERUS AND THERE'S AN EGG THERE....THERE'S A CHANCE YOU COULD GET PREGANANT.
Why do you want to run the risk of getting pregnant? Is that what you want? Do you want to be a 16 yr old mother? Don't you understand that if you get pregnant you'll have to tell your parents? Don't you understand that if you have a baby your life is going to get real hard real fast? How do you know that the boy you're with is going to stick around and help you with a baby. He can't be that much older than you. Do you feel he's responsible enough to quit school and get a job to help support his new family? Because that's what he's going to have to do. He and you can forget about college for a long time if you have a baby.
The only way you'll know if your pregnant or not is to go to the family planning cliniqe in your area and get a pregnancy test.
I really hope that you're not because I wouldn't wish being a teen mother on girl. It forces you to grow up way faster than you need to at your age. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. What you need to be thinking of is hanging out with friends, going to the mall, going to movies, making good grades so you can get into college so you can make something of yourself. Not worrying about prenatal doctors appointments and if you've got enough money to get everything you're going to need to bring a new life into the world.
Give yourself the opportunity to explore your full potenital!
I sooooo hope your not pregnant young one. You're still a child yourself. Stop having sex. If your boyfriend really loves you and respects you he'll have no problem with that. And if he does'nt then that right there gives you and idea as to how much he repsects you. If a guy does'nt respect you what makes you think he'll stick around for you and a baby?
Go get tested for std's while your at it. I'm not suggesting that you get around like that but it only takes one time, one partner to catch something. And if you end up pregnant you could pass what you have to the baby. Tell your boyfriend to get tested to. Don't take his word that he was a virgin before you. Boys lie. Besides he might have something and not even know it.
Best of luck to you young one. You're gonna need it.
2006-07-05 12:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by ilah23 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it's possible. But the odds are in your favor. I don't know a lot of the science behind pregnancy, but it CAN happen in rare and strange ways... You never know, though... the hot water might have been too much for the little guys and then it wouldn't be a problem. Might I just say, though, that I hope it was a private hot tub. Not because might have seen you. But because your boyfriend came in there and that's freaking sick. Let's hope the next woman that gets in there doesn't get pregnant from him too!
2006-07-05 11:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could become pregnant even if he wasn't inside you when he ***.
The stomach pain could be caused by a combination of the bacteria in the water and the chlorine in the water and the rawness from having intercourse. You should tell your mom what happened and if you continue to have pain, she can take you to the doctor. This can be a very dangerous health problem. Your mom should be made aware of this so she can help you. Don't be afraid, just be respondsible.
2006-07-05 11:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not say that you can or can't get pregnant because we don't know if he had any pre-*** or how far you actually had sex... so, the next thing to worry about is thinking what are you doing at 15 having sex if you are not ready to have a baby! I think that anyone having sex , regardless of their age, should be ready to become pregnant anytime they have sex!
Re-reading your question tells me you are NOT ready to have sex since you can not even type out the real question and have to use symbols to get your point accross... honey, quit trying to be a grownup and enjoy your teen years minus the stress of sex! You are not ready! and you may want to see a doctor! HAVING SEX IN A HOT TUB IS NOT HEALTHY!
2006-07-05 11:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nick's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something crazy happened when I was a soldier in the civil war. A bullet pierced my testicle and lodged itself in the ovaries of a peasant girl. She swore she was a virgin, but nine months later she gave birth to a boy that looked an awful lot like me. Gosh, that was a long time ago. aaaaaaahhhhhhhh the memories. What was the question? Oh yeah... The odds of your girlfriend conceiving from free-floating semen in a hot tub are astronomical. Pretty much impossible. Don't worry, you're safe.
2016-03-27 05:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely No. The water temperature is way too hot for semen to live in, and if any preejaculation got in you it would probably not survive due to the heat. The feeling in your stomach is probably nerves from being worried about being pregnant. Also, it usually takes a few days for sperm to reach the egg (they live for up to 72 hours).
2006-07-05 12:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not...don't bother yourself with that. Especially if the hot tub has a chemical agent in it to keep it clean. Sweetie, sperm are no good outside of the bodies temperature. RELAX!
2006-07-05 11:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the hot water will kill the sperm. It has to be in your vagina where the ph and temperature are compatible with life for the semen to make ou pregnant.
2006-07-05 11:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think the chemicals would kill it but you can get pregnant from pre so be careful.. Also, I was watching that sex talk show with Sue (i can't remember her last name) on the oxygen channel and she said that you shouldn't have sex in the water because it can cause water to get pushed up into your system and make you sick. I don't remember the details but it wasn't good.
2006-07-05 11:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI, sperm releases during foreplay, so even if he doesn't ***inside you, there's still a chance of anything happening, Sperm sitting in a hot tub is not a possibility.
2006-07-05 11:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋