He and I are in love and I know for sure he ain't going to leave his family. I stopped talking with him for more than a week now. He's concern and finding a way to communicate with me but we've been through this road before. I feel like I should close my door and move on but at the same time I love him and don't want to let go.
2006-07-05 11:10:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is not aware of my avoidance. Should I close this relationship with him face to face? What should I do if he's too convincing and he had done this before. He didn't want me to leave him. He'll conquer my heart again and again if he has too he said. For those that experienced, would understand how hurtful it is to leave the one you love madly.
2006-07-05 12:00:10 · update #1
I think you ladies are being to hard on her. she knows he's not leaving his wife, she knows she is going to get hurt. Stop telling her what she already knows. I have been there before. Just like some of you have. To answer your question, what you need is not to think about leaving him, just replace him. Replace him with another unmarried man friend, woman friend, or some hobby. Because if you dont that void will eat at you and drive you back to him. A love like that can be strong. It has a lot of varaibles that keeps its claws deep. So dont think about leaving him or dropping him. Just replace him and time (being your best friend) will heal that strong pull. And if you need anymore advice just email me.
2006-07-05 11:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by J 1 · 13⤊ 2⤋
Well think about this. If you were his wife in the future, what makes you think that he wouldn't be talking to another woman behind your back like he is behind his wife's back. Marriage is sacred and you make vows for a reason. He is obviously not staying true to them if he is talking to you and telling you he loves you. His marriage should be about him and his wife and thats it! Not him, his wife and the woman he might be with in the future. So I think the best thing is to get over it and move on because he may if he decides to leave his family for you, do the exact same thing to you.
2006-07-05 11:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ericka G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no intentions of leaving his family so he will NEVER be with you. Change your phone number, do whatever it takes where he cannot communicate with you. Move on with your life, being a homewrecker is not a good title to have.
2006-07-05 11:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this.....he's a jerk but he's living HIS life. You on the other hand are on hold....you're dead in the water....you're not going anywhere...you're stagnant. There could be your future partner right around the corner looking for someone like you and you're in the house sitting my the phone waiting for "him" to call saying he'll be right over for his booty-call. You deserve more.
2006-07-05 11:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run.....split the scene....ASAP. I was in such a situation once myself. he left his wife for me but somehow I think he never forgave or respected me for being the other woman. He continued treating me as the other woman throughout our relationship and ultimately I caught him with another woman. History always repeats itself.
2006-07-05 11:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by sadnblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on. he has a family that he need to think about and be with. Your in the wrong for staying with him imagine how the family would think of you and how other people would look at you
2006-07-05 11:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy again! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, nothing will ever come of this, and if it does, you will always be looked down on for breaking up his family, and on down the road, he will too....move on sistah!
2006-07-05 11:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥o_wise1♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think you might love him but probebly why you think you love him is because you cant have him and makesit exsiting for you if you could have him you probebly feel diffrently just right down the good cualities that you likeabout him and the bad cualities you guys have and see if you guys have anithing in coman
2006-07-05 11:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. All that will happen is you will get a broken heart and his family will get ripped apart.
2006-07-05 11:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him while its easy! If you can go a week without talking you don't realize how lucky you are!
2006-07-05 11:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋