Relationship question,
2006-07-05 10:57:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Movies
yep people make mistakes
2006-07-05 11:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would forgive someone if they cheated on me. On the other hand, the real question is will I stay with that person! I have been in relationships, yes plural, where I have been cheated on. I tried to stay in 2 of them, but it didn't work out in the end. The main and most important thing in a realtionship, is trust, and once that is gone, the rest will soon fail as well. So yes, forgive them, because you don't need that spiritual baggage preventing you from going forward, but you may want to reconsider if you decide to stay with that person.
2006-07-05 18:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take them back, you can try to trust them again, but never burn the bridges.
People that cheat, never really loved you fully. If a person that you are in a relastionship gives themself to someone else, then you're not fully in their heart.
It doesn't matter how long you've been married. Doesn't matter how many children you have together. Doesn't matter the reasons for the cheating - the point is, it's cheating.
No, I would never forgive. I would rather get on with my life, and be with someone who loves me as much as I love them.
2006-07-05 18:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yes. Remain with them? Not on your life. Trust is so important in relationships. If you cant trust someone how can you love them?
2006-07-11 06:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did forgive a woman who cheated on me. It was great for a while. Then, just when I thought we moving forward again, she did it again.
My advice to everyone in this situation is ...
1) If you don't have children, just move on.
2) If you do have children, you owe it to try to work it out -- once.
2006-07-05 18:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how much I've invested in this person and the circumstances of why they cheated. Coule I forgive? Yes, but it would be hard.
2006-07-05 18:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on the situation and the person. If my husband whom I have been with for 11+ years cheated he'd be served divorce papers the next day.
2006-07-05 18:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in the USN, i've had lots of times where i could have cheated (didnt) and been cheated on.....so in a polite word...NO, once you lose that kind of trust you never really get it back
2006-07-07 00:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've done it plenty of times, even though its hard if you really love the person then yeah u can forgive them but if it happens again then you should leave....
2006-07-07 11:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Taylar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just cheat on them back and then just forgive em.
2006-07-05 21:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by rye2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely not. If they cheated on me for a really good reason [I mean really good!!!] then maybe, but not necessarily.
2006-07-05 18:01:14 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋