I was emailing her and talking on the phone and having deep conversations with her. I saw her yesterday after we slept together and now she has not called nor answered my text today! I'm bugging out because I usually don't invest time in ppl.
2006-07-05 10:57:20 · 12 answers · asked by phyre2115 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
So she finally text me back last nite. Nothing special just random conversation. I hate texting! No phonecall yet I don't think I'm in the clear.
2006-07-07 04:36:08 · update #1
Just let it go, seriously! Your handling the situation all wrong, if she doesn't want to talk, trying to force her too isn't going to work. She's aware of where your interests lie, and she stuck some feelings out there when you slept together, now there out and she's a little scared on how this may impact your relationship. Now if you bug her or "bug out" she's going to bolt like nobody's buisness, but if you play it cool and safe she'll tell you whats going on and where she wants things to be. Just chill and have a little patience, its usually worth it.
2006-07-05 11:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by jonsey182 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's just today.. I'd say give her a couple of days.. maybe she's just busy or think things moved too fast... but I would leave the ball in her court... if you keep calling/texting, she's probably going to run the other way thinking you are too needy... if she hasn't gotten in touch with you after a few days, then I'd move on...
2006-07-05 18:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Paige 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is not really that large of an investment. Maybe she is the same way you are...not really the commitment type. If you really like her relax, try to keep in touch with her and let the love flow at it's own pace.
2006-07-05 18:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Maybe she needs some time. Act like everything is cool. Pretend like your not interested either. Get someone you trust to ask her if she wants to go steady or if she just wants hot lesbian sex now and again. Keep on trucking!
2006-07-05 18:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes busy id give her a few more days and see what happens...dont call or text her let her get back to u and if nothing happens move on
2006-07-05 18:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it and call me. I'll give you a night to make you forget all others!!
2006-07-05 18:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother her anymore....and if she doesn't call you back anytime soon, forget it...she's not interested anymore, or she's confused. Give her time.
2006-07-05 18:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget. She wasn't that into you.
2006-07-05 17:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would forget her and go find another girl
2006-07-05 18:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wasnt the gay type n feel bad about what she did with u.
2006-07-06 15:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by $BLUECRIP$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋