Well my friend likes this guy alot and i also like him but i don't know how 2 tell my friend. Actually i did tell her once but she git the wrong message and i don't know how 2 break it 2 her again! HELP!!
2006-07-05 10:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by *islandchick* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's no problem here, you both like someone. Simple.
The guy might not like both of you.
Just say to your mate, ''Look I really sorry but I really like him too''
2006-07-05 10:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in this situation right now and have not yet told my friend, but i will. You should first ask the guy is he interested in your friend. If he say no then that's your chance to get in. There's not anything your friend could do about it no way because the guy doesn't even like her. And if she's a true friend she'll leave it alone and let you all be. Then if the guy does not like you, either you all can be friends or forget about him.
2006-07-05 17:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by sosexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend an old fashioned solution to your problem. Straight up honesty. Depending on how much you value your friendship that is. Friends are supposed to be forever, and I have seen them come and go for a myriad of reasons. How's about I answer your question with a couple questions? Would you want a friend for life or a relationship with a guy for life? What's more important to you?
2006-07-05 17:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be able to be completely honest with your friend. Don't give her hints cuz they can mean a lot more other things and it may confuse her. Let her know that you are interested in the same guy she is. If it doesn't come from you she will probably take it the wrong way and will probably hold it against you.
2006-07-05 17:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that is she going to be mad if another girl like that same boy? If she says yes , then you shoudn't tell her. I'm going to make a skit that.....might happens:
You: He's a really nice boy ( then smile if you want to )
Then if she looks surprise in a .... happy way, that's mean she' okay with that. If her face looks like she gonna kill you then you should stop. Or instead of making faces, and then she asks:
Her: Do you like him?
You: Execuse me? or Pardon me?
Her: Do you like him? It's ok if you do (or) You better not.
You know how to take care when she says either way. Right? Good luck
2006-07-05 17:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by DBSK LOVER! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me once.My friend and I like this boy ,but as I spend more time with that guy the more my friend flirt with him. Well him and I hang out together, when he found out that I like him, he started to tease me and all that,and the bad news is that he really like my friend.He was just hanging out with me so that he could get 411 about my friend, and I realize that there is more guys arund you, who knows you found another guy that is hotter and cuter than the guy that you like.
2006-07-05 17:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sharamae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself if she is more important as a friend to you or is this guy more important? If the friendship is worth it then let her have him! There are plenty of fish in the sea!
2006-07-05 17:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emm...who fell in love first? you or your friend? if your friend was talking about that guy before you so it will be difficult to say her you like him.she can understant your words like a betrayal. you can fall out with your friend. in the beginning you should choose who is more important: that guy or your friend. if your friend is more important to you than a guy you shoul say nothing.otherwise you should tell your friend that you like him straight. first of all think about that guy? maybe you like him just because your friend likes him? maybe he has tons of minuses? maybe he don't like you? try to search and then decide what is better to you. i think it was helpful to you. good luck:)
2006-07-05 18:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by pupuliukas13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if u guys both like him and u guys r good friend then he is not worth it guys r guys really
2006-07-05 17:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat i say to do is tell him how u feel but if u and her are really good friends then both of u should really back off so u dont loose a good friend they r hard to come by dont ever let a guy come between you
2006-07-05 17:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by hottie wit smarts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋