I told my parents that i'm a lesbian and they kicked me out they gave me some clothes and my guitar, mobile and iPod and they kicked me out in the cold i'm right now in a coffee shop has a computer in it to talk to you guys where am i gonna sleep tonight ?and for the rest of my life?
2006-07-05 10:39:34 · 17 answers · asked by Jesse 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i don't have a friend and my girlfriend is out of town and the big thing is i'm 14
2006-07-05 10:45:31 · update #1
Wow how old are you?
If you are a minor you can call social services.
Edit
Call social services definitely.
They can help you. That is what they are there for.
Edit II
Please call DSS or the police. Is there a relative you can call? An aunt or an uncle who you trust. Perhaps your grandmother. God I wish you had more people to turn to.
I am praying for you. I have a 14 year old and it scares me to think you are out on your own right now. Please keep us informed.
I am sorry the Daddy in me is coming out. Please contact me and let me know you are OK.
I am on my way home I have an hour and half commute. In that time I want to know that you have called social services. Please email me when you do. I will worry about you all night tonight if you don't. Or at least let me know you have a relative to stay with till this blows over.
2006-07-05 10:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should call social services as you are a minor. I am proud of you for trying to tell your parents who you are and I am sorry that they let you down. Perhaps they will come around in the near future. Sometimes it takes them a while. I am happy that they gave you your belongings, but I am terribly afraid for you. Go to social services or the police station. They should be able to help you. Take this one day at a time. You are a smart girl and you will pull through. Find a friend whose parents will let you stay there. Stay in school! You will be okay. Try to journal and get your feelings on paper. It should help. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-06 10:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exact reason I always advise saving the "coming out party" until people are on their own. Don't count on your parents coming around. Call your friends right now and get yourself some place dry for the night...Tomorrow is another day and perhaps something will happen good. For better advice, I would have to know your age. IF you are under 18, I strongly suggest turning to the Family Courts for care. Good luck
2006-07-05 17:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG CALL THE POLICE!!!
It is illegal to throw out a child under the age of 16. The call socail servirces. This is a real sad situation. If you love music as much as i do this might be a real hard thing to do but you could try selling your ipod or guitar for extra cash in the meanwhile.
2006-07-12 14:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by kittykat42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the 9 line. 1-800-999-9999. Natinol hotline for runaway throwaway kids they will find you shelter for the night and then work on a long term solution.
Your other option is the cops. In some states it is illegal for parents to force their minor children out of the house.
2006-07-05 21:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Are you for real?
Family. An aunt? A cousin? Anything?
Who do you think your mom is calling at this instant? Is it a person you can call and get to calm your mom down and reason with her? If you live in a big enough city you could call P-flag and see if they have anyone available to help with some type of intervention.
Bless your heart, take care.
2006-07-05 17:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by pammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know. Maybe call a GLBTQ help hotline. They might know of some resources in your area that could help you out. I put in a link.
National Hotline for GLBT # 1-888-843-4564
Youth Talkline # 1-800-246-7743
http://www.glnh.org/index2.html
2006-07-05 18:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's really unfortunate -- best of luck in overcoming this.
I play guitar and love music so it pains me to say this, but selling those might get you a bit of cash that could be really useful. The social services listed by others in this answer are also definitely worth pursuing.
Best of luck.
2006-07-05 17:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by twelfthhousepluto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a friend!! i understand your parent are upset but there is some typr of law about that...if you cant go to a friends then you need to go to the police station...atleast its nice out if you have to camp out some where
i just read one of your answers which stated you have a girlfriend and you have been kicked out before... dont get everyone all freaking out thats not cool kid
2006-07-05 17:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by starjessiegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the boys town helpline immediately @ 1-800-448-3000
Boys town does not just service boys but all youth and teens and have programs for disenfranchised youth due to orientation.
2006-07-05 18:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by mike g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋