2006-07-05 10:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by Rano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Pack your bags and run. He's obviously abusive, and it'll just get worse.
2006-07-05 10:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by triviatm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, if your boyfriend is "killing you" why the hell are you sticking around to be his victim?!?!
take a good look at your front door, that's your way out. Jealousy is an ugly thing, so how can you love him? the man is making you his personal slave, victim, and above all else, dictator of your life? were you born into his slavery? hell no! then get out!!!
don't wait around because you think things will change! THEY WON'T CHANGE! He doesn't see a problem to change! Tell him that if he thinks you're cheating on him, than you're not gonna take his s**t any longer, and that you can do just fine on your own! then grab your make-up bag and suitcase and get the hell out of there! if you don't stand up for yourself, no one else is going to!
2006-07-05 17:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by dorian_gay82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details would help here. Is he doing this intentionally or are you a little to sensitive and untrustworthy.
My ex was extremely jealous of anybody I talked to yet I never once cheated on her and I never once flirted with another woman when I was with her - she was just way too insecure.
If, on the other hand I had been flirting in front of her then I would have been disrespecting her and I would have deserved her jealousy. If he is disrespecting you, it is not going to change. As painful as it might me, you need to leave him and find a man who will love you without hurting you.
So, is your jealousy justified or not?
2006-07-05 17:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You females need to understand one thing about all "boys" and "guys". That is they will take advantage of love and devotion until YOU put your foot down and say that's enough. Let him go, cut him loose, he is able to do this to you because you are allowing it to happen. Have some self-respect and get away from the loser. A real man will never treat you that way.
2006-07-05 17:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him.......my bf is the same way. I guess you can try to block it out but if he gets physical at all you need to get out. Once he hurts you once it leaves a door open for it to happen again. Just do what you think is right and just remember there are many other guys out there. Yeah he might seem like the one but there is always that special guy out there that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!
2006-07-05 17:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by blonde2059 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you're feeling...trust me, communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. And if he doesn't understand or disrespects you. than maybe it's time to move on.
2006-07-05 17:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Regina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you love him because you obviously think you cannot have anyone better. Get out of the relationship. There are guys better than that.
2006-07-05 17:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to him about it or move on! People have been known to really kill over jealously. Don't take it lightly.
2006-07-05 17:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a problem. get it fixed. you would not be in a relationship where you are being killed and stay. you are in need of help.
2006-07-05 17:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by the a.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything that everyone is saying....If he can't get over his insecurities then you need to move on.
Why stay with him when you know that it id doing yourself harm????
H.x
2006-07-05 17:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by harriette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋