Okay, so my best friend (whom I do like A LOT, but he doesn't know) and I were talking last night and I asked him if he thought I should get green colored contacts and he said, "I thought you already have green eyes" and I was like, "Well, I do, but I want to see what they would look like if they were greener. But you're like the only one who even knows I have green eyes. Everyone else thinks I have brown eyes" and he said, "Well, that's because no one else pays attention". Okay, so not that big a deal, but this morning, he sent me a text explaining some stuff about why he might not be able to answer my call and then he was like, "Ya know I'm actually looking forward to church tonight :)! Ok ttyl". I don't know..I guess I just think it was a little strange. He normally doesn't say stuff like that. I feel so silly because it seems so dumb but I guess anything that even hints he might like me, makes me excited! Anyway, what do you think about it?(Please be nice with your answers!)
2006-07-05 09:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by tlc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just wanted to add that normally he doesn't say stuff like this.
2006-07-05 09:54:15 · update #1
Really...times a wastin...Just ask him. I think he may like you.
2006-07-05 09:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if this guy likes you. If he is noticing the color of your eyes and stuff like that he must genuinely feel something for you. My opinion on the matter is to give it some time and see if he does more stuff like this. Then, if you feel that he likes you, tell him how you feel. Or, for right now, drop him little hints like hes doing for you!
2006-07-05 09:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really a matter of your personal opinion. If he has never done this before, who knows, maybe he is starting to see you in a different light! Sounds to me that maybe you struck up an intimate question that struck a cord in him! Then again, who knows. I would just ride it out for a few days, maybe ask him another personal question and see what his response is. Sounds to me like he just might be interested. But like i tell my daughter, don't set your hopes up too high only to get crushed. Test it out first.
I wish you luck and hope you get what your heart desires!
2006-07-05 09:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to say that best friend turned lover relationships are by far the most successful in my experience... my current PERFECT relationship was like that... you need to ask yourself a few questions, a) do YOU think you are taking this too seriously, i mean as his best friend you should know if this is typical behavior for him which leads me to the next question b) if you truly are his best friend, you will know when he starts acting differently you will just know... is he? you will know you can figure it out... trust your intuition i know it sounds cheesy but if you listen to it you will get the best answer!
2006-07-05 09:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by jessiemo731 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the only who really knows how he feels is him. but it sounds like he may be liking you more than a friend, but thats just a hunch, so all i can say its not good to jump to conclusions. let him tell you himself when he is ready. wait on the Lord, he's got a plan for your life and He knows everything and who is best for you. just enjoy the wonderful friendship you got for now.
2006-07-05 09:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you, wait for some more hints about it though. Unless you're really good Friends then just say you've been picking up a different vibe from him lately.
2006-07-05 09:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start spending time going to the movies, out to eat, etc together.
Don't know how old you are, but just be honest with him, and tell him how you feel.
Maybe he feels the same..
2006-07-05 09:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does like you but does'nt seem confident enough yet to tell you how he feels, if you like him a lot then tell him and see what he does about it, if your barking up the wrong tree and he's just being nice to you as friends do then at least you will know !
2006-07-05 09:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lyniroquai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, mayb he as the same feelin az u, mayb both of u like each other but no one has said anything, so i suggest tonight whenu go 2 church fess up
2006-07-05 09:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Alexis J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's interested. That's the best way to find out. It sounds to me like he might be.
2006-07-05 09:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just the next time you see him tell him how you feel about him and ask him if he feels the same way
i think he realy does like you from the info you gave
2006-07-05 09:54:07 · answer #11 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋