I'm living as part of an apartment share with two other parties. One, a small Hispanic family, gives me no problems. The real problem is with the wife of a biracial couple, Dawn. She weighs about 400 pounds, has no teeth, smokes, and is on disability for undisclosed nervous ailments.
She cleans, constantly, and never fails to tell me that I disgust her. While Property Management has told me simply to avoid her, and avoid sharing any storage space, she consistently moves my things around. She even moved the fridge! Cooking is impossible; she *has* to pour herself a drink just then, always spills just a little, and then follows me around with a sponge, abusing me verbally, and claiming that I'll get evicted. Property management keeps on considering this too petty, or some problem of my not cleaning up -- I've done all the accomodation I can, and she's driving me crazy! Can you help?
2006-07-05 09:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by teleny2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can at least make a report to the cops. Or you can always move!
2006-07-05 09:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this isn't easy, but do your best to just ignore her. I don't know the whole situation so maybe something more extreme needs to be done. Regardless, people like that hate to be ignored, and when you don't acknowledge them they will tend to back off a little.
2006-07-05 09:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for a new place to live, and before you leave make the messiest meal you can think of and leave it behind for the OCD to clean it
2006-07-05 09:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 06:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out.
But right before you leave - you must first deficate all over the floor and spread it around with a mop. Make HER life hell!
2006-07-05 09:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order or call the cops when she follows you around.
2006-07-05 09:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tara R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a couple of options the easy one is to move, then there is involving the cops, but my personal favorite is stand up to her and tell her to leave you alone or else. sometimes that's all it takes.
2006-07-05 09:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by underworld2289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont move youll be giving them the power instead embrace it with kindness and forgivness.
2006-07-05 09:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move. Your home should always be your sanctuary. If you don't feel relaxed at home it will affect all facets of your life.
2006-07-05 09:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that ***** off theres always more apartments, it aint the end of the world if u go somewhere else
2006-07-05 09:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by beretta2211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋