I asked my friend about a relationship problem without mentioning his name. He asked me at first and I told him it was none of his business, who I talk to and what its about and he kept asking if I was sharing our business and I told him the truth and now he broke up with me. Was I wrong for asking? I didnt mention his name at all. I tried to respect him.
2006-07-05 09:32:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girl I asked, isn't my close friend. I didn't mention his name, I just gave her a scenario. He called me a liar and said that when he asked me I lied, but I didnt lie to him.
2006-07-05 09:41:41 · update #1
No, everyone needs to be able to seek out advice from friends... sounds to me like he was just waiting for an excuse to break up. I'm sorry..
2006-07-05 09:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. Go find a nice boy.
It's like this; I'm married and if there are problems, I turn to friends and family. Everyone needs a support group. Some people turn to church, though I'm not religious.
Sounds to me like your boyfriend is immature, insensitive, and controlling. I bet that he was planning to break it off awhile ago and is just using this incidence as an excuse.
He's not the guy for you, move on.
Now that you're single go out and have fun, you can get tied down when you're old and grey. Live it up now!
Good Luck!
2006-07-05 16:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens in a relationship stays in a relationship those are things that only u two should know because if not its never gonna work out lets say they r private stuff and u shouldnt have said that it wasnt his buisness cause that makes him feel u dont trust him
2006-07-05 16:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you were wrong in talking to a friend about a problem, if that friend is very close and if that friend is able to keep a confidence. I would be more concerned about this boyfriend and his need to control with whom you talk and about what.
2006-07-05 16:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody needs to have someone they can talk to freely...obviously, your ex-boyfriend isn't someone you can say anything to, so of course you're going to turn to a friend. I think 95% of women share their relationship problems with someone they are close to. It can help to have an outsider's opinion instead of just discussing things with your boyfriend. Your ex was not reasonable. You have my sympathy.
2006-07-05 16:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to be able to talk to someone about what's going on in your life. Friends are very important advisors and can sometimes give you objective opinions. Never lose your friends for a guy.
2006-07-05 16:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by lexicam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wernt wrong for asking...
But in the future...try to remember that all guys think they are perfect and that there is no possibility of there being any problems in a relationship.
2006-07-05 16:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just looking for a way out. if he broke up with you just for that reason then there must be more to it. like if you shared about your sex life. that is priviate and should be kept between you to only. maybe he feels that since you blabbed whatever it was that your not trust worthy. but i think he was either looking for away out or you said something that you shouldn't
2006-07-05 16:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were wrong. You should keep your private life private. As for folks telling you you should ask your friends...they are dumb. It is you life and your relationship so you make the descisions you will have to live with.
2006-07-05 16:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he got offended by this, in which case its not a cause for breaking up, he should of warned you that he doesnt like it, he could of just been looking for an excuse to brake up with you, evryone deserves the benefit of the doubt but darnit he could of just told you to dont do it again rather then brake it off ..l
2006-07-05 16:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋