are you considered bi if .....?

Question

if you only think about the same sex in a sexual way but have done nothing with them only with the opposite sex and you get turned on by the same sex...are you bisexual or just curoius?

Answer 1

You never know. Sexuality works in strange ways. For example, I get turned on by both. I'd rather look at a naked women far more that I would want to look at naked men. But I am more romantically attracted to men, if that makes any sense at all. I consider myself bi... but prefer men. You could just be curious too. I tend not to worry about it putting a label on myself, I'm just who I am!

Answer 2

If you think about both sexes in a romatic and sexual way for a long-term realtionship then you are bi. If you are just curious about what it would be like to be with the same sex then you're bi-curious. You do not have to have sex with a person to know you are attracted to them.

People are born bi, just like being born straight, lesbian, & gay. And there are tons of people that knew they were a lesbian since a very young age, like 8 years old, and they never had sex, they just know. Same idea with being bi.

Edit: Sandy G is SO wrong about this. You don't have to have sex to know what you are attracted to. There is a difference between bi and bi-curious (as I've tried to explain.) How would vrigins know then? Come on.

Answer 3

Bisexuality has many different forms. Some bisexuals have relationships with one gender, but may only have casual encounters with the other gender. Some bisexuals are monogamous, and other bisexuals alternate between genders when choosing a partner.

You have to explore your attractions/fantasies. If you continue to experience attraction to both genders, then you are bisexual. Remember that sexuality is fluid and can change over a period of time.

Answer 4

I think you are bi, in the same way that if you only think about people of the opposite sex and get turned on, but have never had sex, you would still be hetero.

Answer 5

It technically could go either way. I too am Bisexual and have had VERY little experience with them (funny as I prefer women to men). I consider myself bisexual but just havent found the right partner as of yet. It could go either way as my ex-gf was bi-curious and realized that halfway through her realtionship that she loved her ex-bf.
Yeah that was low --;

Answer 6

I guess you would be bi. I mean just because you have done nothing with them doesn't really mean anything. IF that's what you like that's what you like.

I mean when I was still a virgin I knew I liked girls. So that would mean I was straight even though I had not done anything with them yet.

Answer 7

If you are talking about you, I think you're just curious right now... you would need to at least kiss people of the same sex to see if you like it...

Answer 8

I would say just curious. To be bi, you have to have done stuff with both sexes.

Answer 9

It just means that you're bicurious. Now all you need to do is experiement to find out if you are bisexual or not.

I consider myself bicurious, even though I've been with several guys and girls. Im just not ready to label myself bisexual, not just yet.

Answer 10

actually, that means very little....plenty of gays have been married and had children before admitting that they are gay, just because you've done things with only the opposite sex doesn't mean you aren't bi or even gay. you'll know if you're gay or bi or straight, just trust me.