Here's my story,
I actually don't have a boyfriend and I'm not intending to get one, I just treat boys normally and try as much as I can to be sweet to them. A friend of mine has her ways to get boys, she even succeded in hooking a guy in our college and they'll get engaged soon, but I'm not like her and I don't have this gift of making boys or men fall in love with me, so my mum thinks the only to get married is to search a husband for me, a guy that i've never seen or dealt with before, her idea is to be engaged to him and right then we'll get to know each other. What do u think the best way to win a guy and get married to him without parents' help?
it's very important
2006-07-05 09:22:36 · 4 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The short answer to your question is "no", if you continue your present course of action. College is one of the best forums for meeting life-partners due to high frequency of possible candidates and shared interest possibilities. Failure in this arena leaves the next best thing: the work environment. So try stepping up your opportunities while still at college, and/or seek counselling in overcoming shyness in the dating department. Now get out there and give it the "ole college try". Good luck!
2006-07-05 09:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by lou-lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the way u r ..
Marriage are made in heaven. May be this is not the right time for you to get engaged from your question i guess that your choices are somewaht different from other girls . you need a guy who is loyal abn somewaht difeerent from the common man.
there is nothing wrong in getting married to the guys of yr parents choice may be you might fall in Love with him..
A true facts is that arrange marriages are more successful tahn Love marriages , as there are lot many things to know abt yr spouse . In love marriage once the couple get married , they lost the interest in one another while in arrange marriages it begans , each one tries to do what teh other one likes and try to win their heart.
Don't get disappointed ,
Someone ,
Somewhere
Is
Made
For
You
Only.......................
2006-07-05 16:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul Agarwal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide how your life will turn out. But even if you never get married, don't worry about it. Your life can still be just as happy and complete without getting married. Don't worry about it so much, just enjoy what you do have in life. What's meant to be, is meant to be.
2006-07-05 16:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by brainstew79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always best to find your own partner.Because it is your life and not your parents life.It is obvious that your parents too will do the best for you.But still the better course would be for you to find your own partner.
Good luck.
2006-07-05 16:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋