my bf broke up with me because hes afraid of change and everything was changing and i need to get over him because i will never be with him and i need to apcept that so how do you get over someone you care so much about
2006-07-05 09:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I broke up with my bf too.You have to make a list with unhappy moments,I know now you think you'll never get over him,but if it didn't worked out you have to pull yourself togheter,move on girl!!!Your are not alone,everyone has to go trough this things!!!maybe you've learned something good from this relationship!
Good Luck!
2006-07-05 09:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss_the_rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay busy, get involved with alot of stuff so you won't have time to think about him. Join some kind of group or something. I went through the same thing and I stayed busy. It has helped me alot. All that energy you put into him, put it into something you love besides him. I like children so I did alot of volunteer work at different centers. I also joined a book club and it keeps me busy.
2006-07-05 16:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about the differences and how his not being able to adapt to change will never let you have a good relationship. Once you realize that the person you wanted him to be and the person he is are different it gets easier. Still, it takes time.
2006-07-05 16:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but you really don't get over them, you just feel a little less pain over time, and this takes a long time, it is a little easier though if you can find a little closure over the situation...
2006-07-05 16:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to forget about him,... don't remember the good feeling you get when you would see him, don't remember about him holding you or kissing you... and don't remember him saying how much he cares for you... The truth is, if you love someone you can't get over them, just try to keep yourself busy as best you can... I'm in somewhat the same situation,... you won't get over him, so just live with it.... (not trying to be mean, please believe me) thats all you can do.... I'm sorry.... Thanks for reading this message... take care
2006-07-05 16:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over an old flame is to get UNDER a new one. LOL LOL
2006-07-05 16:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by amazon1968_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
impossible
2006-07-05 16:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by minnie m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new someone!!
2006-07-05 16:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋